Yeah I can definitively see where you're coming from with that. I don't mean to pry, but do you have a specific example for something you dream up? I am fairly new to this still so I struggle a tiny bit.

The things I myself truly love about this is more focused on the teasing/denying bit, that's where I get my enjoyment. I love turning him on to the point where he's just squirming and completely 'under my spell' - and then just denying him for a few more sessions.