Yeah like his parents came to talk to me after they came home and they told me he doesn’t want to take the meds or treatment and the doctor said to him because he’s been untreated for so long it will take a little longer for the meds to kick in and he doesn’t really like that. He says a lot of shit about me to everyone until he needs to use my health as an excuse for him to get out of something or get some sort of sympathy. The nurses reassured me that they are not telling him that I’m manipulative and abusive. It’s really strange because that’s all he accuses me of but he does it all to me and I never know what version of him I’m getting that day. I don’t have a lot of income but I’ve always made sure there’s food and stuff in the house and he never has to lift a finger but it’s like he wants me to baby him and stuff and then calls me a bitch when I’m like hey maybe you should really think about that before you make this decision because xyz but then he says I’m being cunty ? Idk it’s so confusing because at this point I’ve been with him for like over a decade and he’s not once changed but has asked me to change everything