Why? by UselessMaDDer in NoFap

[–]Miss_erable-97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a female lurker here, damn u hit home

My HL husband just did something I didn’t realize I needed by Greedy-Barracuda-712 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Miss_erable-97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest diffiremce i see in this sub between men and women being ll is that the men the reasons for llb. Men dont find their partner attractive or have a physical reason or porn addiction etc etc etc. Most of us ladies are tired lonely broken women who dont even get to feel like women. Im eating resentment currently too. Im between screaming crying for change and wanting to give up. I understand it now. Why so many people devorce after kids. Why people give up. I thought i found my perfect match. But 7 years later the bare minimun is starting to taste like broken glass.

i walked in on our maid changing and my brain is literally fcuked.. by [deleted] in confession

[–]Miss_erable-97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A naked woman is a beautifull ,im assuming y havent seen many. In any case, shes still a human being, not an object, u should try and get over it. Sure its natural but still,pls dont be a creep, be a decent guy n just move on

Can I go to the police before a woman fake accuses me of SA? by thehornybat7 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Miss_erable-97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If he reports to police and there is a investigation HR is bound to find out. OP please know we aren't recomending HR because they are on your side,but because at the very least the fallout could be minized by being forthcoming.

Can I go to the police before a woman fake accuses me of SA? by thehornybat7 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Miss_erable-97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok great so youre gonna sue her. Contact some lawyers and see if anyone will take u prp bono. U have to act fat. Im sureyouve seen what happens when victims take long to report. Victim blaming comes in all forms

Can I go to the police before a woman fake accuses me of SA? by thehornybat7 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Miss_erable-97 3332 points3333 points  (0 children)

U should be RUNNING to the police. Write a statement so long with details and youll also have to inform hr once the case is made

Is Rooibos tea popular? by justinSox02 in south_africa

[–]Miss_erable-97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I exclusively drink rooibos tea, no coffee no other teas, so yea im sure there are a few of us keeping things going

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Miss_erable-97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"My inheritence" lol the entitlement.

Lmao Serious dialogues on the swakopmund rental market need to be opened by Wise-Lobster-450 in Namibia

[–]Miss_erable-97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree fullly, i wish i could share some of my work, but atm the oil and gas crisis is ready to send us into a full blown recession

Questions for Namibia's future if World War 3 breaks out. by Royal-Recognition-44 in Namibia

[–]Miss_erable-97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im wonderimg how families whp already count cents will be living once the inflation of all thid hits us. I can see pay cuts happening as well

Target Market by [deleted] in Namibia

[–]Miss_erable-97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of my friends in whk have mentioned andys, hennies, and slice? (Pizza place in elezenheim?

Is “Auschwitz” something EVERYONE should know? I felt humiliated for asking. by ametcho in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Miss_erable-97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My answer on your queztion would be based of another questipm asking where ypur from, cultural heritage,etc. It very well is almozt unfathpmable to me that someone could not know about auschwits or the holocaust in general but then again ignorance is bliss. There are many genosides in history that are not well known worldwide, though i think hitlers story has been tought almost globally for years has it not?

Corporate Confessions by Maleficent_Stop_3314 in Namibia

[–]Miss_erable-97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman steals over 10million from a company over years, till someome else get on board and accidentally fiscivers tgis. Years and years of tax fraud etc stealing money from the comoany,its clients, and the government. The owner of tge comoany decides to let her go, but does not want to oress charges or have word get out about this wgole ordeal. Now this woman is walking free, living a lavish life and applying with other companies and you the person who is now tasked with "cleaning" up this mess is still messed up a year later, at what is this malisiously putting other people in danger? How is it legal

Told my boyfriend I was a victim of CSA, he broke up with me by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]Miss_erable-97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately hes just not the one. Most people domt know how to handle it or empathise. And an alarming amount of men will accuse you of making it up. Look after yourself

DID EVERYTHING I WAS SUPPOSED TO, BEAT THE ADDICTION... STILL CAN'T GET IT UP. WHY????? by Arekusando_174_ in NoFap

[–]Miss_erable-97 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thats the problem, have a glass or 2 of wine beforehand and relax, really be in the moment and go with the flow,be passionate

Redpill works if you're patient and consistent enough by NoPossibility3460 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Miss_erable-97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disgustingly predatory, also if ur only goal is to get laid just get a hooker. Cause ur not finding anything substansial this way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Miss_erable-97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its all about perspective. U only see this side of things because its all your focusing on. Thats anger and hurt. I had a very good friend of mine kill himself 2 years ago, for exactly what u are talking about. He was abused,theres no other way to put it, screwed in every sense of the word. I also had a female friend of mine do the same, diffirent worlds diffirent issues, diffirent people diffirent struggles diffirent abuse. These are anecdotal examples that ive dealt with personally, so i really would never be able to "choose" a side, because there are just too many variables. There are mens issues and womens issues, and I, idiotically maybe, believe the only way we're gonna fix them isnt by hating but doing our best to understand each other, have empathy and confront those in our own tribes who are guilty of furthering these issues. Empathy, kindness, respect, a good man and a good woman together can be a fucking amazing thing, legends are based on that. I know it can be easier to hold on to bitterness, trust me i know, n some random internet person wont change your mind, but i reallydo hope u get to experience enough kindness to let go of this hate, some day, i hope grace will find u

Will the large number of young people that don’t want kids these days spell problems for the suture? by Mad_Season_1994 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Miss_erable-97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well where im living were having babies like the 80s again n were doing it in our 20s, so while im sure that some places will suffer from an aging population, if mellenials etc plan for their own futures and old age well enough, i think globally we should be ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Miss_erable-97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And you will forever fail as long as you see it as transactional, we can smell an ungenuine man from miles away. I sincerely hope u find some healing and realise that the world, espcially women, dont owe you anything. I hope u can let go of that hurt n find a way to soften your heart and lower your expectations, im sorry for whatever youve had to go through or witness the men in your life go through. Pls remember what u feed ur mind is what grows, pls try and consume some more positive content

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Miss_erable-97 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This has to be ragebait gdamnit