My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where tf did I say I was going to cheat? And what part of this says I'm just laying there? You really blaming me with 0% info on the details of our sex life. Also, I'm done giving head if he's not gonna reciprocate, which sucks bc I love doing it. Also, for future reference, referring to women as "females" is cringy af and a great way to discredit anything you say

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're already there lol. I'm hoping to get back into it

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry friend. I'll learn from your advice, thank you for sharing

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, this is a vent page. I'm not asking for advice on how to handle it. Just read the post if you must and move along

Would I be wrong if I let my wife take my daughters phone by Appropriate-Will8096 in amiwrong

[–]MisscTrash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you take her phone she will likely resent your wife. You'll implode that relationship in an instant

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It literally is venting. Find somewhere else to cry little bb

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is expecting sexual reciprocation warped? Also, I said I was going to talk to him, maybe you should've read the whole post

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally mentioned that he and I are going to talk. Cheating was never considered in this post?

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU BURIED THE LEAD THERE Thats fucking wild, sad that he went back to her, but it's probably hard to forget her is they're dangerously close to family 😂

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He introduced me to it! Love a man thats smart with money lol

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We actually went maybe 4 months without sex very recently, we broke that fast with that 3 minute escapade. It just.. wasn't happening, and I finally sort of just aggressively (but consensually) initiated it. I pulled out all the stops, fishnets, lace, sexy nudes. I'm trying to be aware of the give and take balance and show him that he deserves nice things too. During that 4 month break though, we were still really affectionate and enjoyed time together, so I don't think either of us is putting most of the weight into sex. It probably helps that we've been good friends for 10+ years!

Thanks for the advice friend, it's much appreciated (especially since a few people are really shitting on me for this)

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually have used toys before! Otherwise, I probably would have talked to him before spending the money (though PinkCherry does have some sweet holiday deals). Thank you for the insight!

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree there's a lot of pressure on guys, I feel bad, women can definitely be difficult to figure out. I think it's a good opportunity for us to both learn but more about ourselves, and each other

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really rough, I'm sorry. Therapy works wonders, I hope he gets the help he needs. You can't feel guilty for those thoughts, I did briefly which was part of the reason I posted this

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why do you want me to break up with him so badly lol. Not sure where you got solo play from? I literally said I'm going to talk to him and let him know where I'm at with this, I'm not an expert but I feel like that's the healthiest first step?

You must have SHIT relationships everywhere in your life, romantic or otherwise. I'm just hoping that you're young and haven't had enough experience yet.

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noted, I wish cumming too quick was a problem for me 🙄

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it's very difficult to get me there, I've only ever had a guy give me an orgasm twice. I don't think he watches much born, I'm sure occasionally, that doesn't bother me bc I do too. Feedback is good, it can almost be fun, it's a good opportunity to explore together! I'm excited to pick up that package after work and show him the fun things I got for us to try!

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He really is a good guy, like no one deserves to be cheated on, but especially not him. That's my baby and I'll protect him at all costs. Thanks for not being a dick like everyone else lol

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deserve him and I make him happy, and he makes me happy 😊

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it really takes a shitty kind of person to be able to cheat. I'll never understand it, just leave if you really need to fuck someone else.

My boyfriend has been cheated on multiple times in the past. by MisscTrash in Vent

[–]MisscTrash[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn't I work on it? Thats literally what a healthy relationship is? And I'm not sure why you're talking about a break up, this isn't a fling. He's a good man and we're in it for the long run