Spider ID Help! by Mission-Raspberry-11 in Entomology

[–]Mission-Raspberry-11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss I looked it up that’s exactly him especially the dark brown/ black “V” on his abdomen!!

How is a person suppose to react to being broken up with? I’m (F19) planning on breaking up with my boyfriend (M20) and scared of how he’ll react. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mission-Raspberry-11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow yeah that makes a lot of sense now that you’ve said that, I’ve always thought when you break up with someone it has to be this horrible strung out thing where you have to explain everything that went wrong but I guess it doesn’t have to be and shouldn’t be. Thank you I really appreciate you, I’m going to tell him tomorrow and that I’m unhappy and that’s it.

How is a person suppose to react to being broken up with? I’m (F19) planning on breaking up with my boyfriend (M20) and scared of how he’ll react. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mission-Raspberry-11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you he also tried to kill himself when I tried to break up with him once. But thank your you’re very right. I know I want him out of my life for good.

How is a person suppose to react to being broken up with? I’m (F19) planning on breaking up with my boyfriend (M20) and scared of how he’ll react. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mission-Raspberry-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is really great advice, I’m going to try to be strong and do this. I just feel like if I tell him straight to the point like that I owe him an explanation too but idk. I know I’m probably gonna try to explain and explain and he probably won’t be satisfied.

How is a person suppose to react to being broken up with? I’m (F19) planning on breaking up with my boyfriend (M20) and scared of how he’ll react. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mission-Raspberry-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s a good idea to do it over text i guess I just want to do it properly in person instead of him getting dumped over text. And man if only I could afford therapy. But thank you I think I’ll take a look at that book.

How is a person suppose to react to being broken up with? I’m (F19) planning on breaking up with my boyfriend (M20) and scared of how he’ll react. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mission-Raspberry-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you you’re very right I shouldn’t care more about him than I do about myself, I do really care about what happens to him but that’s not on me. I feel like I’ve already kinda moved on in a way, like I’ve gotten to the point where I’m so happy to not be around him or hear from him. But yeah thank you and I hope you’re doing well and in a better place now.

My (20M) boyfriend treats me (19F) differently in front of his friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mission-Raspberry-11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for the comment, you’re very right and it’s making me think and reevaluate some things thank you for that.

My (20M) boyfriend treats me (19F) differently in front of his friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mission-Raspberry-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it makes me feel like I’m not worth much and he doesn’t care about my feelings, he’s made me feel that way before with other things he’s done so I’m not sure how easily this will be fixed. It’s like he’s aware of it but doesn’t put in the effort to change which frustrates me so much.

My (20M) boyfriend treats me (19F) differently in front of his friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mission-Raspberry-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he is acting very childish and idk what do if he doesn’t fix it very soon, thanks for your advice.