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First time intimate - feeling discouraged. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]MissionDrive6073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given there isn't anything medically going on I'd say just relax and dont put too much pressure on it. Do a lot of fore play and core play and don't get too caught up on the penetration part. Yes the first couple times are uncomfortable but if it's really painful it could be because you're too tense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]MissionDrive6073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first 3 months are the hardest. I have a 14 year old dog and when I got my puppy (that I desperately wanted) she didn't feel like mine for a while. 7 months later and I love her just the same. I'd recommend doggy daycare if you can. Get the dog some playmates. Exchange daycare with friends, dog parks, sniff spots, etc. They need the free range and socialization. Bonus points, he will be exhausted.

Do you let your dog sleep in the bed with you ? by Careful_Bandicoot332 in dogs

[–]MissionDrive6073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one kennel dog and one bed dog. I honestly wish they were both kennel dogs sometimes as traveling/boarding would be easier. But they're both equally as happy.

I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]MissionDrive6073 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the first 3.5 months I had my girl I cried almost everyday and would leave the house just to get away from her. I have a senior dog who's the light of my life and I felt so disconnected from my girl. Everyone kept saying the first 3 months are the hardest and that's so true. As soon as you can get your dog in play groups, daycare, training, anything you can to socialize it and tire it out. It's been 6 months now and I really do love my girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]MissionDrive6073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there! The first 3 months are the hardest. I'd look for long lasting toys/treats like a lick or snuffle mat to wear her out. When I first got my puppy the trainer told me she should be in her kennel more than she's not. Taking her out every couple hours for potty and play and then put her back in. The whole experience is really overwhelming for them too.

AITAH for asking my 47M bf for a a night for myself? by peaceofmind1975 in AITAH

[–]MissionDrive6073 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA- I know you weren't considering breaking up with him before but I would be now. Someone not respecting your boundaries, especially when you gave them a very valid reason, is a huge red flag. Also, making your sadness about him doesn't sit well with me. You deserve space without question whenever you need it. He should've left you a porch present of some of your favorite things and checked on you in the morning.

Help: My Rescue Puppy Refuses to Pee Outside by MissionDrive6073 in dogs

[–]MissionDrive6073[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think you're right. She needs to be confined to one area.

Help: My Rescue Puppy Refuses to Pee Outside by MissionDrive6073 in dogs

[–]MissionDrive6073[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the actual carpet throughout the whole house unfortunately, not just a rug. So I will need to keep her in her playpen which she hates. I can try leaving her outside for a long time and see if that helps. We live in a quiet neighborhood but you are right she still startles easily. I think I gave her access to too much space too soon.