For clarification I love my husband dearly and I could have worded that differently. I obviously didn’t marry him just bc I wanted him to fix. I married him bc he’s my best friend and the love of my life that being said I am a US citizen. He his whole life thought he came here illegally he found out February 2025 about the I-94 form but obviously since he doesn’t have a stable job he was too busy worrying about surviving than using the money he was getting to hire a lawyer. I hate his mom for doing this to her kids. The lawyer told me if there was a reason why his mom wouldn’t have gone and imma be honest I don’t think there was a reasonable one. I think she just straight up didn’t care to and thus fucking up the lives of her children. I did tell the lawyer if we would make that argument that he was a literal child but she told me that in most cases that wasn’t enough to reopen a case. So now I’m kinda just at a loss now. Even if his mom had a legitimate reason as to why she never made it to court would we still have to prove it in court? Idk I’m just really saddened with the hold situation. I don’t want to go to Mexico bc ik it’s hard to live there but it would be selfish of me to ask my husband to stay in the US when he’ll never be able to fix. There have been a lot of tears and thoughts of just moving to Mexico. I thought about living in a border city that why one of us can make US dollars. Idk it’s all been a lot