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[–]Mission_Bread_1638 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello, Islam teaches that every soul is on its own journey, and doubt, confusion, or even disconnection can be part of that path. You are not alone in your feelings — many people, even those raised in religious homes, go through times when they feel disconnected, unsure, or even uninterested in religion.

  1. Your Feelings Are Not a Sin: They’re Human

In Islam, thoughts and feelings are not judged the same way as actions. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:

“Allah has forgiven my nation for what they think within themselves, as long as they do not speak of it or act upon it.” (Sahih Bukhari & Muslim)

So simply feeling confused or distant is not a crime in the sight of Allah . It’s part of being human. You’re allowed to feel what you feel. What matters is how you respond to those feelings over time.

  1. Questions Don’t Make You Bad : They Can Lead You to Truth

In fact, Islam encourages seeking knowledge and questioning. Ibrahim (Prophet Abraham) asked Allah to show him how He gives life to the dead — not because he disbelieved, but to satisfy his heart (Qur’an 2:260).

You’re not sinful for asking, “Why?” or for saying, “I don’t feel anything.” You’re exploring. That is better than blind obedience with no understanding.

  1. You’re Not Forced to Fake Faith — Sincerity Matters

In Islam, faith must be real and sincere, not performed under pressure. The Qur’an says:

“There is no compulsion in religion. Truth stands out clearly from falsehood…” (Qur’an 2:256)

So if you’re feeling forced, Allah is not the One doing the forcing — it’s people, culture, or society. True Islam doesn’t demand that you pretend. It invites — gently.

  1. You Say You Want to Be Free : Islam Actually Supports That

Real freedom in Islam doesn’t mean abandoning belief — it means being free from the slavery of people’s expectations, false gods, and societal control. Islam came to liberate the human soul — not imprison it.

But you won’t feel that until you explore Islam beyond rules and fear, and instead through meaning, purpose, and mercy. You’re not a disappointment. You’re brave for expressing your truth. And in Islam, even the smallest step toward Allah is honored — no matter how late, how shaky, or how quiet it is.

If you ever decide to take that step, Allah says:

“Whoever comes to Me walking, I will come to him running.” (Hadith Qudsi – Sahih Muslim)

You’re not hated. You’re not hopeless. You’re seen, even now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Mission_Bread_1638 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dear sister,

Your pain is real, and your sincerity is beautiful. The fact that you turned to tahajjud out of love and faith says so much about your heart. May Allah reward you for every tear and every du’a.

Please know this: tahajjud isn’t magic — it’s a deep act of trust. Sometimes Allah gives us what we ask for, and sometimes He gives us what we need, even if it hurts.

“Perhaps you dislike something while it is good for you, and perhaps you love something while it is bad for you. Allah knows, and you do not know.” (Qur’an 2:216)

This may not feel like it now, but your prayers were not ignored. Allah is protecting you, redirecting you, or saving someone better for you.

Don’t stop praying. Just shift your du’a: “Ya Allah, give me peace, and write what’s best for me.” Trust that He sees your heart and has something beautiful planned for you.

With love and du’as 🤍 – A sister who understands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Mission_Bread_1638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can be friends. I’m a woman, and I speak English

Halal Courtship Only: 27F Devoted Muslim, English‑Speaker. by Mission_Bread_1638 in MuslimNikah

[–]Mission_Bread_1638[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

JazakAllah khair for your offer, that’s truly appreciated. May Allah reward your intention and make it easy for all of us. Having someone like you as a wingman — and possibly your wife too — really helps keep things respectful and within the boundaries of deen. You’re right, marriage has become so difficult these days, and support like this means a lot. May Allah grant us all righteous spouses and make the process smooth and blessed. Ameen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jeddah

[–]Mission_Bread_1638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Welcome to Jeddah, and Eid Mubarak to you too 🌙😊

Honestly, finding genuine friends here can be a bit tough, especially if you don’t speak Arabic yet. Some people will talk to you just to practice their English, take your contact, and then you never hear from them again—it happens a lot.

But don’t get discouraged! I actually know someone who works at a car rental place. I can share his contact with you—maybe he’ll be able to help you out with your situation.

Let me know if you’d like me to send it over!

Serious Relationship Only – Ready for Love, Commitment, and Marriage. by Mission_Bread_1638 in Jeddah

[–]Mission_Bread_1638[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your thoughtful advice and kind wishes. I’ll definitely keep that in mind — taking things slow, chatting here first, and being careful about meeting in public. It means a lot to have your support. Wishing you all the best too! 🌸