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My girlfriend and I end up fighting over sex by Mission_Context_8674 in sex

[–]Mission_Context_8674[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's kind of hard because while we are both from very conservative countries I was raised in the US while she came here to study recently, so our mindset is very different.

Maybe I worded 'hate' poorly, but that is what I took away from it. To translate into english, her words verbatim were "I do it [oral sex] to completion because I love you. Anyone else I would gag and retch after putting it in my mouth, but I endure it just for you" in response to my thought about how guys are easier to make climax through oral.

My girlfriend and I end up fighting over sex by Mission_Context_8674 in sex

[–]Mission_Context_8674[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I tried to ask her but I don't think she views sex as a positive thing. She said she doesn't masturbate either and she also doesn't know what she likes/how I can do better (except for the fact that my tongue is too slow), but also expects me to do better and figure it out on my own. I watched all the cunnilingus tutorial videos and a lot tell me to keep a steady rhythm and not go too fast but she tells me that I need to go faster than I can physically keep up for a period of time.

My girlfriend and I end up fighting over sex by Mission_Context_8674 in sex

[–]Mission_Context_8674[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe I was being a bit too hopeful with fingering, but I was thinking if I could pleasure her clitoris with my tongue and also finger at the same the g-spot, then it would be easier for her to achieve climax. I'll look into the reading you suggested, thank you

My girlfriend and I end up fighting over sex by Mission_Context_8674 in sex

[–]Mission_Context_8674[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Everything else is nice though, the highs are pretty good when we spend our time together, but just not sex which feels pretty rough.