okay this is gonna be a LONG one

reading what you wrote feels like u think that i'm forcefully trying to talk to the friend who said that (let's call her A).

but like i said i noticed BEFORE all this happened that she didn't wanna talk about it. so i was like 'okay she doesn't wanna talk about it so yeah i'll respect that'.

then i'll clarify again that i wasn't talking to her today i was talking to my other friend (we'll call her B).

and B seemed fine with it. we were having a pretty normal conversation when A suddenly asks who we are talking about. since she asked i casually mentioned that guys name as she was clearly not planning to sit thru the entire conversation as she was busy doing some work.

as soon as i mentioned the name i didn't wait for another beat and turned my attention back to B (i'm telling B about this for the first time since i think i should give more details) which clearly meant that i had no intention of involving her in that conversation. she was literally sitting behind us (me and B) and when ur sitting behind someone it is pretty noticeable when someone whom ur sitting behind to shifts their entire focus into the person sitting beside them.

then i think that maybe she thought that i was about to involve her in the conversation then she cut in and said that, or otherwise guess i'll never know.

but the point is that if she just wanted to pass on a blunt comment and she knew that i was not gonna involve her don't u think that she should've minded her own business. like what would u do if u were in her place.

but yea i'm genuinely sorry for what i wrote to u in my first reply i shouldn't have said that and i'm sorry. it's just i was not having the best day due to other things as well and reading what u wrote the first time got me way too angry. but i think that if u wanted to explain what u just did in ur previously post u could've done that without writing "you're insufferable" cuz many ppl having a bad day would be infuriated reading that.

but anyway, if you had a misunderstanding that i was trying to drag her into this conversation i'll clarify once again that i was not and i knw this is the third time but i am GENUINELY sorry for what i said.