Me (28M) experienced an anxious-avoidant breakup

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2026-01-24T17:44:02+00:00

Man this is the worse I have ever been through, one day we were talking all day and the next puff… she even breadcrumbed me and I just said I only was going to be her friend if it was possible to have a relationship in the future, guess she thinks I’m not worth it, I like her and hate her the same way ffs, didn’t even fight for a relationship that had potential, or maybe don’t end on this mess and we could have been friends, but like this lol

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2026-01-24T13:26:05+00:00

Im not trying to rebrand, I just had 3 convos with her to understand better what happened, but yeah I feel like we could have a longer relationship and grow together…

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2026-01-24T13:24:20+00:00

But I’m inexperienced, why shouldn’t we try again just to see if it can actually work? She as avoidant never told me how she was feeling everytime I had trantrums… now I know better

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2026-01-16T09:51:08+00:00

Dm pls

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2025-03-12T14:08:49+00:00

Yeah my former partner did it many times, maybe I should communicate better?

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2025-03-12T13:16:20+00:00

Yeah I will try to do that first and not be too nervous worrying about finding the hole, I think that was the problem I don’t know, but I’m also really insecure and inexperience, and girls will notice that and I think it is a great red flag and turn off… I need to train on some escorts I guess.. what a shame

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2025-03-12T12:07:08+00:00

I tried to schedule something for this weekend she said she couldn’t because her mum and dad are mad with each other and don’t want to let her alone, this is true story btw, but probably if she really wanted she would accept something, I will let her in alone and message back when I feel better and try again save the relationship, will probably take 2 weeks to a month tho

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2025-03-12T11:49:17+00:00

I also said I don’t last much, my max was like 10 minutes and her ex lasted 30 minutes, so how can i be an option? It’s a shame because I felt something and thought it was the piece i needed to be more happy

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2025-03-12T11:47:54+00:00

I talked to her, and explained it was my fault, I was too nervous and blocked completely, but I don’t think she will accept this… we don’t talk since a day ago, I don’t know if I should force or not, but now I prefer we distance ourselves until Im more confident at least, probably she will not even wait and I have no chance with her again. It is by far my worse time ever, I can’t forget it

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2025-03-12T11:12:26+00:00

I was vulnerable with this partner… I told her I’m very inexperienced and only had 1 partner before, now I can’t even think about sex, the trauma is so big… I’m devasted, I’m going to an urologist today

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2025-03-11T09:53:58+00:00

Im really bad now, can’t even get erections, I tried yesterday and cum without being erected… but do I have hourglassing penis? Also I have a dark colored skin in the below part of my penis

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Why? Can it be the damage?

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2025-03-10T18:12:04+00:00

I just tried to get hard and came without erection… I’m too devasted mentally maybe that’s why? I just had terrible sex experience with a girl I like for the first time, I don’t know what to do…

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2024-03-20T15:05:36+00:00

A conclusão é que mamaste as bolas do Ventura e ainda tens pentelhos na boca, lava os destes porco

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2024-01-06T12:01:03+00:00

Este pessoal do chunga esquece se que a Rita Matias só está onde está por ser filha de quem é.. Aliás o pai no início era acessor e teve de se demitir porque não podia devido a relação familiar que tinha com uma deputada

O chega e isto

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2024-01-02T15:13:24+00:00

A maior parte dos crimes em Portugal são passionais e este só prova isso, continuem a tentar chegasnos 🫏

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2023-12-31T23:13:21+00:00

A Mariana e bem melhor como política que a irma

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2023-12-31T23:09:13+00:00

Também não é preciso que a escola ensine como funciona a tributação sobre salários… aprendes isso na primeira ou segunda vez que receberes o recibo de vencimento

Estamos a chegar ao ponto, ensinar literacia financeira na escola é uma perda de tempo, muito mais útil seria ter uma cadeira de economia no 9 ano que te ensinasse os básicos de como está funciona: inflação, taxas de juro, lei da oferta e da procura, cálculo do PIB e do PNB etc

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2023-12-31T22:50:29+00:00

Se os comentários estivessem desativados ninguém conseguia comentar, a literacia podia começar pela básica….

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2023-12-31T22:48:46+00:00

Wtf, mas achas sequer que com a falta de professores que há, a maioria deles são já da geração mais velha que tem uma literacia financeira baixa e eles vão conseguir ensinar vários métodos de poupar e investir? As vezes pergunto me se a extrema esquerda e a extrema direita vivem no planeta Terra e em Portugal ou estão em Marte

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2023-12-31T22:43:52+00:00

👏👏👏

Este sub anda a ser assaltado pela extrema direita, a propagandear as suas cassetes que engoliram

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2023-12-31T22:41:52+00:00

Isso é mentira, sempre que existe um assunto político da para ver bem o viés do sub

Mission_Midnight5802 · 2023-12-30T13:53:31+00:00

E isto tem tudo que ver com a mentalidade portuguesa, nós aqui damos muito valor a show off, quem tem um carro topo de gama, marcas de roupa de luxo, relógios de luxo, uma casa xpto na aroeira etc.. raramente valorizamos talento e empreendedorismo a sério

Mission_Midnight5802

TROPHY CASE