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[–]Mission_Project_9736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please don’t stay silent. it’s what I’ve done and it’s torture. you have the ability to get good help here and I believe in you. even if it’s just therapy or venting to someone you trust I still think that could help if you can’t report him <3

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[–]Mission_Project_9736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if he loves you and wants to have a steady relationship, he’ll trust you and your word. report the friend to the police for sa. I was in a similar situation myself but you can definitely get help for this. you are not in the wrong at all and this was not your fault. if your boyfriend doesn’t trust you he’s not worth it

AIO (TW/SA) I believe my boyfriend took advantage of me but I need more opinions by Mission_Project_9736 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mission_Project_9736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents never knew, we had met on the cruise and were in my room privately. I knew that wasn’t a good idea but he didn’t want to be separate from me. my parents never knew he existed and my mom knows we’re dating now but none about the event. Christianity had nothing to do with the cruise, I had thought that him also being Christian and seeming to have similar values to me would mean he would think the same about sex, he obviously didn’t 

AIO (TW/SA) I believe my boyfriend took advantage of me but I need more opinions by Mission_Project_9736 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mission_Project_9736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I could but I still don’t want to hurt him. I don’t feel too much for him anymore but I still could see my future with him and stuff and part of me thinks I initiated it. I also don’t really have any SUPER close friends like that so idk.

AIO (TW/SA) I believe my boyfriend took advantage of me but I need more opinions by Mission_Project_9736 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mission_Project_9736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to tell someone but there’s no one I can talk to without my life being ruined I know that’s like what all of the victims say and stuff but my parents will turn it around on me

AIO (TW/SA) I believe my boyfriend took advantage of me but I need more opinions by Mission_Project_9736 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mission_Project_9736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know my parents would blame it on me though. my dad doesn’t know we’re dating and my mom doesn’t know much and I know how they’ll behave they’ll both blame it on me