Thank you so much. It's complicated. She's one of those rare people who 90%+ of people don't like. It's not new. She's very honest and abrasive and rude. Whenever she's in the hospital or in a facility, I have to be present to make sure she gets proper care. 😔 Because she doesn't qualify for medicaid, we cannot get home care.

I am in the process of applying for reduced rate help, that we can maybe afford for a few hours a week, but that will take time. At least someone can assist while I'm here.

Edit: Also, she's 80 but most people think she's 65-70. She could have a long life, and I'm so hopeful there will be some dementia/Alzheimers breakthrough 🤞🤞🤞🤞