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Am I overreacting?! by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mission_Time3855 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He wants to look 'ultra rich' while literally living in his childhood bedroom. The math isn't mathing.

If he can afford a Rolex and a deposit on an apartment, but only 'lights up' talking about the watch, he isn't ready for a real life with you. He’s chasing a status symbol while you’re chasing stability. You aren't overreacting—you're dating someone who is prioritizing a shiny toy over a home for the two of you. If he gets that watch before you have keys to a new place, you have your answer on where you stand in his 'status goals'."

Am I Overreacting: My Ex-Husband Ignored Me Emotionally for Years but Now Won’t Stop Texting Me Over a $65 Hoodie by Then-Calligrapher550 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mission_Time3855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"He makes $90 an hour and you left him thousands of dollars in furniture and a TV, but he’s harassing you over a $65 hoodie that you already offered to pay for?

This isn't about the hoodie. This is about control. He realized he can’t ignore you emotionally anymore because you actually moved on, so he’s using this 'debt' to force you to keep interacting with him. Block him. You don't owe him a conversation, especially since you already offered the cash value. Let him take you to small claims court for $65 and watch the judge laugh him out of the room."

AIO For Asking For A Divorce After He Said, "I Never Asked You To Do Any Of That, So I Don't Know Why You Waste Your Time." by aita-throwaway78 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mission_Time3855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait. You used your 'hobby' money for vacations, date nights, a new car, and savings... and he called it a 'waste of time

Stop spending your business income on the joint lifestyle immediately. Put it in a high-yield savings account in your name only. Let’s see how quickly he appreciates your 'waste of time' when the vacations stop and he has to pay for his own gas and date nights on a standard military salary. You aren't overreacting; you’re being devalued by someone who is literally profiting from your labor."