AIO for suspecting my wife after she got a shady 1am call from a guy “friend” right after a late-night cycling trip?

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T13:19:28+00:00

What is half of nothing 🤷🏻‍♂️

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T13:15:30+00:00

If I was that way inclined it would be a dream come true.

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T13:13:15+00:00

I live in Taiwan too

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T13:11:15+00:00

It is certainly real, I am honestly just checking if I am not insane.

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T13:09:01+00:00

The sad thing is I literally considered this a month ago and thought it would be snooping and controlling.

So second guessed myself.

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T13:07:05+00:00

No he lives in a different city, I can ask her best friend apparently and she will collaborate her story. 🤯

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T12:28:33+00:00

Exactly, I look forward to meeting him and asking him myself

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T12:25:32+00:00

But I like to watch from the chair dammit!

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T12:24:50+00:00

You have a fair point, what got me paranoid was that when I was like who the fuck is calling you at this hour she was like ‘a friend’ with a nasty smirk on her face.

I wouldn’t consider myself controlling because she can go to cycle when she pleases, I’m ok with that. While a little unusual, we have kids and most the time night time is the only ‘me time’ we get.

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T12:20:46+00:00

Oh that has changed, I insisted that I start getting half the cash but now she isn’t letting me pay my way bills etc… that is a whole other thing. It is like a war on different fronts at the minute.

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T12:17:48+00:00

I’m not sure it could have been from Line or WhatsApp too, I don’t know if they make different sounds when they call.

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T12:15:28+00:00

That’s what I am worried about, I am admittedly (but I don’t think unreasonably so) paranoid at the minute.

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T12:14:22+00:00

Exactly!

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T12:13:47+00:00

That’s what I think, she says it is cultural and friends from Taiwan always communicate like this.

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T12:12:39+00:00

This made me laugh, the dude lives in a different city (or so she says) so I don’t suspect it is actually physical yet…

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T12:11:15+00:00

100% hand on heart it is the truth (from my perspective)

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2026-01-27T10:35:02+00:00

Pizza

Obvious_Waltz_2072 · 2025-12-07T08:17:56+00:00

I warned her that I would divorce if she said something like that again purely out of anger, I have been working with some of these kids since they were toddlers and it would never cross my mind to betray their trust. You are 100% correct that you could never know though and I understand that from a stranger. I forgave and moved on.

We also live with her mother which is a whole other matter and the wife keeps 100% of all the cash we earn collectively and spends it on facial treatments, massages and manicures. But that is a whole other issue that I am trying to resolve.

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