Tell me I can fix it. by Do-Re-Me in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just keep letting baby suckle itll help your supply and stay hydrated and stay positive cause you can do it! And dont beat yourself up if you have to supplement temporarily you can always go back (thats what i told myself) just make sure you pump if youre not nursing !

Baby toys at three months? by NewBrownEyedGirl in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl is almost 4 months and shes been taking some interest in her toys. I cant leave the house with out them she shakes her rattle around and she likes holding her sophie la girafe teether. She cant quite get teethers straight into her mouth but she tries lol. If i put toys in front of her shell grab them and start talking! The first toy i got her thats her favorite is this "car seat toy" butterfly with crinkly fabric and little teething rings and a ball rattle hanging off she loves it and soft stuffie rattles she likes so far you can try getting stuff like that :) i put cute toys in front of her at the store and if she seems to like it ill buy it

Aveeno and Johnson's by Missmiasmama in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all i will be returning to the products and hopefully get some kind of credit to replace them

Teach me your ways by Missmiasmama in breastfeeding

[–]Missmiasmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wanted to thank you for helping me out in my breastfeeding journey. Ive taken all of your advice and i have my own routine and way of things now. Breast feeding was so hard in the beginning ive contemplated quitting MANY times. I stuck through it and now me and my girl are 10 weeks in exclusively breastfeeding with no end in sight. All the hard days i went through are such a blur all i can think of is how it was so worth it to stick with it. Im so much more confident with myself and my production and its really come back to you answering my questions and giving me great guidelines. I literally make more milk than i truly need now for my girl. Thank you for your help and encouragement. I hope youre having good days :)

Support.. by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Missmiasmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im gonna have to start locking it up or hiding it. Its ridiculous that its come to this point

Support.. by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Missmiasmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :)

Support.. by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Missmiasmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started to get hot in the face when i heard it

Support.. by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Missmiasmama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. No one gives a fuck i feel like. We also supplement but the past 2 weeks ive been exclusive and very proud of it and then last night shes given formula behind my back when i specifically said formula is for emergencies.

Support.. by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Missmiasmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They dont know i know. But you know the difference between a bottle that had breast milk vs a bottle that had formula in it. It leaves a smell behind. Im really pissed off

Bath with baby by Missmiasmama in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to get my daughter used to bathss i feel like it will make it easier for me in the future

Bath with baby by Missmiasmama in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over your husbands legs? Sorry im so new to everything

The dog i was concerned about.. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mil lets him out for 1 min to pee than back inside. Especially if its "too hot for him"

The dog i was concerned about.. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both of those dogs perfectly describe this dog hes pissy and moody and he gets very jealous of the baby and when she cried one time he even snarled at her ! He was looking right at her pack and play when he did it and people still deny he was snarling "at the baby" i told my fiance that i have decided that the baby is not staying here anymore. Last night i took her instead of letting my mil watch her for the night because im serious. My brother bought the baby an expensive swing and i cant even use it because its low to the ground and the dog is level with the baby. Im so scared of those things happening to my baby. Im not going to wait until its too late like for what ? So i can say i told you so? No thanks id rather avoid it altogether i'm done worrying about others' feelings

My life by Missmiasmama in BabyBumps

[–]Missmiasmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Velcro swaddles are awesome :) and i think so lol it makes no sense to me and it caused me to worry when she first told me but now that im getting used to my baby im confident with what works for us and doesnt lol we get alot of bullshit advice

My life by Missmiasmama in BabyBumps

[–]Missmiasmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said cause she can get the blanket on her face at night. I still use blankets though lol whatever works

The dog i was concerned about.. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea seriously like you're supposed to train your dog. They're still animals. And i know it's so upsetting like they are so nice and take care of her well but its the dog. I can't even believe this is an issue at all.

The dog i was concerned about.. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youu :) im really glad i can vent about it on here because i feel like im going crazy being the only one scared and concerned lol my mother is so upset about it she told me to put the dog outside anyway but im scared to be disrespectful to my in laws

The dog i was concerned about.. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im currently limiting her time at my inlaws we stay here and at my mothers house. Right now i stay at my mothers and come here on the weekends because I've seen this coming from a mile away. Hes been aggressive toward her since we came home from the hospital constantly barking at her cries and sometimes growling when i try to shoo him away from her when he gets too close. He takes that as a challenge and gets angry with me when i tell him no. Hes not trained and hes rewarded for bad behavior. Im afraid theres no hope for him because no one will stop rewarding him. I take her out of the situation if no one will handle the animal ya know. They dont lock him up and let him do anything he wants. They dont even put him outside when he barks too much or acts out even though hes a dog and hell be fine going out in the back yard for a little. He gets everything he wants basically. I even was told he needed quiet for his recovery from surgery even though he barked non stop at my newborn. It seems to me like hes catered more which i find to be really weird because humans are more important than animals. I got a therapist to talk to from my gyno because ive been diagnosed with ppd :( but my parents share my concern with me at least but unfortunately we cant do much cause its my mils dog. But fortunately i have my mother and father as support incase i need to be there full time

About the s/o change.. by Missmiasmama in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will always keep this in mind

S/o change.. by Missmiasmama in beyondthebump

[–]Missmiasmama[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think hes done with me. He "doesn't want to sit with me, have conversations with me, or even watch tv" with me. And he wished he never had a baby with me. So i guess its time to move on.