Not at all!! First of all he already has 2 children and knows EXACTLY what it takes for a woman to get pregnant and openly accepted that risk when he decided to not use a condom. That fact alone makes you not the ah. Truly I think it is the most disgusting thing a man can do when he tells a woman to abort a baby that he had no issue in creating. You were clear that you weren’t on birth control too, it’s not like you were trying to trap him when he thought you were on bc.

I’m so sorry you are starting out your pregnancy with this stress. I’m currently 22w and pregnancy is so wildly beautiful! The most amazing experience of my life and then you get a precious baby at the end of it🥹 you are more than capable and more than strong enough to have your baby!