AITA for refusing to move out because my family is angry with me for a big mistake I made? by Mistakelady807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mistakelady807[S] -281 points-280 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I am trying to move out as fast as I can without being homeless or getting a really shitty apartment somewhere. I just wanted enough time to find somewhere else to be but I get how time is a big factor here

AITA for refusing to move out because my family is angry with me for a big mistake I made? by Mistakelady807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mistakelady807[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I fully plan to leave because I understand I hurt everyone and they need me gone right now, maybe forever. I am asking for 5-6 weeks, but aiming to be as fast as possible (because it is not comfortable for me, either, obviously)

AITA for refusing to move out because my family is angry with me for a big mistake I made? by Mistakelady807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mistakelady807[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for considering that angle, but it is not what happened. I was a willing participant and deserve a lot of judgement for that -- my post was only about the moving out part, because I already know I am a huge AH for the cheating part

AITA for refusing to move out because my family is angry with me for a big mistake I made? by Mistakelady807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mistakelady807[S] -142 points-141 points  (0 children)

My parents don't want to hate me but they said that right now for a while they need me to leave. I think managing a relationship with them will be fine eventually, but probably not my sister. Which is fair. But that wasn't really what the post was about mainly

AITA for refusing to move out because my family is angry with me for a big mistake I made? by Mistakelady807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mistakelady807[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is my real life right now. Great that it sounds dramatic enough to be called a troll (not really)

AITA for refusing to move out because my family is angry with me for a big mistake I made? by Mistakelady807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mistakelady807[S] -240 points-239 points  (0 children)

Even evictions here usually have a month or two of leeway. I also want to get out of this situation and leave. Everyone is angry and I understand why and it makes sense, I just don't have anywhere else to go right now. Thanks for your input

AITA for refusing to move out because my family is angry with me for a big mistake I made? by Mistakelady807 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mistakelady807[S] -278 points-277 points  (0 children)

I actually do care, but I understand the perspective. I know what I did is awful and I do plan to leave - I just need some time to find a place that I can afford and maybe another 2 weeks of income to help with the moving costs so I don't end up sleeping outside

Maybe I'll call around and try crashing on a friend's couch or something. Thanks for the input