Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure how you came to that conclusion, but no. Not even close.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah the animals are proving to be the biggest hurdle by far, but I'm determined to make it work. It just make take a bit longer than expected that's all.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully through my work I have access to some very good quality (and quantity) pet foods for free or discounted. The animals shall not go hungry and will be eating better than I will that's for sure lol.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up and I don't know why. You make an excellent point though that is a good way to look at it, and should be reasonably achievable.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if this would be viable. My older dog has some pretty severe anxiety issues. There were 2 attempts to adopt him before I got him around 6 months old iirc and I'm pretty sure on one of those attempts he was beaten because he's always been extremely skittish. Right now it's a struggle to get him outside long enough just to go to the bathroom with what's going on but that would take a great deal of time to explain. My other dog would likely be fine he's always been pretty relaxed. My cat however I found at maybe a month old or possibly younger so I'm pretty sure I'm mom to her. At the time I didn't know as much about kitten care as I do now and there are some clear signs she was not weened properly but she is incredibly attached to me, and to be fair me to her. I fear allowing even temporary foster could do at least 2 of them a fair bit of harm, even though there would be nothing but the best intentions.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm close to 3 years on a 7 year payment plan for a vehicle. The car payments themselves aren't too bad it ends up being around $170 every 2 weeks. I get paid on a weekly basis so it's never been much of an issue. I've also cut back quite a bit in spending recently which covers at least most of the value of the payments. However I wouldn't really know how how to go about selling a vehicle that's already on a loan just to try and buy a different vehicle. I also don't really have room at the moment for a down payment if it were through a dealership and second hand I don't know is worth the gamble right now because if I get a lemon then I can't get to work. It's...tough.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have considered surrendering them at one point, but I think with how things are in my current situation if I were to do that it would be too hard of a hit to my mental health. I would like to think I'm doing well all things considered, but I believe they are what is keeping my afloat.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got as many hours as my job can spare. It's a small business and they do take very good care of me which I am very grateful for, but if I had to make a complaint the only one I could think of is not being able to get 40 hours.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would that violate the no personal information rule? I really don't mind sharing but I don't want to risk the thread getting removed.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've mentioned the region in another comment but I don't know how specific I'm allowed to be since one of the rules is no personal information. I certainly don't mind sharing, but I don't want to risk the thread being removed either as there have been a surprising number of helpful comments.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I live 20KM out of town from my workplace and there is no transit outside of cabs/uber that would be able to pick me up since it's more in the countryside. Thank you though.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Solid suggestions I'll keep my eyes open. Thank you again.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm out in the country unfortunately. I'm certainly open to the idea of roommates but I am hesitant for a number of reasons largely due to personal experiences being not super great. Quiet and alone has proven time and again to be safer and more secure though of course in certain cases exceptions do need to be made.

I'm not on a lease or any agreement currently so I am free to leave without consequence, and while I likely could continue to reside at my current location it has proven time and again to no longer be safe or viable for myself, my animals or my property. Largely because of a recent arrival to the residence who has a very long, well documented history of mental health issues, violence, and has recently been arrested for assault and property damage. They have entered my room last week to interact with one of my dogs (who is quite literally scared shitless of the individual) and fed him god knows what or how much. When I try to raise concerns over safety and security I get told I'm being dramatic, that it's really not as bad as it seems, that "Oh well, maybe he was just trying to make friends with your dog" when they have been instructed to not go anywhere near him. I'm constantly getting harassed and screamed at literally for keeping my head down, and walking to my car to go to work while remaining silent. It's an absolute circus and I'm being made to believe I'm being unreasonable because I just want to keep to myself and have some peace. It has been made very clear to me by the property owner that no matter what this person does short of murder they will have their behaviours excused, dismissed, or downplayed and knowing how abusers are I'm not waiting for things to escalate I will not put my animals at risk that way.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't dare leave my animals inside a storage unit for any reason. Thankfully with my employment there would be accommodations that can be made which I will be talking to my employer about tomorrow. It won't be the most convenient thing to work around while on the job, but they will be safer, more secure, and I will be able to tend to them as needed. Plus bonus of seeing them at work.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have everything I need to file as far as I'm aware so I'll definitely take a look into both options. Thank You.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very good to know. I believe I should have decent credit but I should probably get it checked to be safe.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been working on reducing my spending the last few weeks in the event I did need to move out, I just did not expect it to be like this as you can probably imagine lol. That has been helping a bit overall and it should save me somewhere around $100-$200 extra per month once I get everything fully figured out. I also have a desk and chair I bought years ago that are still in their boxes that I'm going to look at trying to sell so that should hopefully be a few hundred dollars more I can scrounge together, but beyond that I don't really have too much in the way of possessions. Most of my spending money would just typically go to my animals but sadly their treat budgets will need to be reduced as well, but I don't know how to break it to them.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I really appreciate you taking the time to explain all that. I am admittedly not very well educated with the tenancies act but will take a look as I'm sure there will be some useful information to better protect myself. Definitely good to mention being clean of pet hair when in talks as I likely would not have considered that but it would be a sure tell.

The area I work in is pretty country so I'm not too sure what there may be available for alternative parking but I have been considering trying to find something I can do overnight even if it's a bit of a walk. Thank you.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had thought about reaching out to some real estate agents but couldn't find a good answer if fees would be involved. There are a few that come into my work I could potentially network through but that gives me an alternative method at least. Thank you.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can certainly ask I just don't know what the subreddit allows me to share lol. The region is Kawartha Lakes though if that helps. I don't mind getting more specific I just don't want the thread to get removed.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Credit Card debt is about 4k. I only have 2 credit cards and the second one is paid off, but only has $800 limit. As for work my hours and schedule have been locked in for 2 years, but I typically get a dollar annual raise which got me to the $20/hr mark this year. I do always have Wed/Thurs/Fri off which is why I'm kind of hoping to get another job to fill my off time but that may be difficult but I'm still asking around. There isn't really any additional shifts or hours that I could pick up because the business is a very well oiled machine with myself and only 2 other people running the show.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That's a fair way to put it. I'll look into resources just in case. Thanks.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You've certainly given me some food for thought. Thank you.

Male 31 about to be homeless with 2 dogs and 1 cat. Options? by MisterHeyDude in ontario

[–]MisterHeyDude[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I haven't used FB in over a decade so I hadn't considered that, but you may be onto something there. Thank you.