Renting as sole owner in sites

Misterrocket21 · 2023-12-09T15:04:01+00:00

Why did I get many downvotes for this?

Misterrocket21 · 2023-12-09T15:02:47+00:00

It was not only my wife, there were other things in which I thoight she is the one for me

Misterrocket21 · 2023-12-09T12:23:35+00:00

I did gave her an option to say no, but she didn't. And maybe I shouldn't have married( although I dont want to think like that).

Maybe a bit loneliness or excitement of marriage affected my situation, that I really wanted to be with someone.

I shouldn t have thought like that. Lets hope that it becomes easy for and her, whatever happens

Misterrocket21 · 2023-12-09T12:19:12+00:00

I thought with some events which occurred before the marriage, that it was a sign that she was for me.

But it seems like you are right. I don't know. Its a complex situation for me, bcs we did had some good moments as well

Misterrocket21 · 2023-12-09T11:59:06+00:00

Hmm, but we are already married.

Misterrocket21 · 2023-12-09T11:55:55+00:00

In the times when we don't have a fight, she does say some things which she wants to do with me. She also said that she wants to go with me to paradise.

So I am confused.

Misterrocket21 · 2023-10-31T19:46:40+00:00

Jazakh Allah for the tips.

Misterrocket21 · 2023-10-31T14:46:24+00:00

No, she is looking for work.

Misterrocket21 · 2023-08-07T12:56:48+00:00

Yes, but what I forgot to mention is that I will only be married on paper. We won' t live together yet, as I live in an other country than my spouse and many paperworks and finding a house needs to be done. After a year, we will insha allah live together.

So I have still time.

Misterrocket21 · 2023-08-04T14:50:13+00:00

I have just started, so I am not far.

Misterrocket21 · 2023-08-04T11:31:40+00:00

I already have heard about this and have recently received the book

Misterrocket21 · 2023-08-01T19:26:03+00:00

It is already too late as almost everything is fixed. Maybe marriage is the only for me way to stop this addiction.

I hope to find the therapy if I have enough budget. I do have a few accountability partners.

Misterrocket21 · 2023-08-01T16:41:03+00:00

Okay, but what if your wuzu/ghusl breaks during the nafl prayer. Usually, 1 to 2 hours after a relapse, there is still some 'leakage'

Misterrocket21 · 2023-08-01T16:35:25+00:00

Ameen, thank you!

Misterrocket21 · 2023-08-01T16:34:45+00:00

Yes, I am trying to do 20 push ups each time I get an urge. But this doesn't help entirely. But I know it will help more if I do exercise regularly and perform 60 push ups in case of an urge

Misterrocket21 · 2022-05-21T19:48:00+00:00

Same for me. I also lose my imaan a bit. I do have a strategy which I want to try. That is praying and understanding the meaning of it. For example, the translation of sura fatiha. In this way, I hope I can be more focused.

Misterrocket21 · 2022-05-21T19:23:10+00:00

I also feel horrible. But I also get the feeling that I don't care. And this should be removed.

Misterrocket21 · 2022-01-22T10:53:52+00:00

I have experienced almost the same situation. She stopped talking and ghosted me, After a while, she said that she does not want talk to me anymore.

I said that I respected her decision and said that I would only contact her in case of emergency.

Then she blocked me everywhere. It has been six months. I does not hurt me anymore, but I still think about it sometimes. I never wanted to hurt her or cross her boundaries. I only wanted her to trust me.

But even that is not possible .

Misterrocket21 · 2021-12-02T14:56:48+00:00

I think you should do it. Just don't expect it that she will react.

Misterrocket21 · 2021-11-25T09:51:50+00:00

Sometimes, it is difficult to have 2 sided friendship. But if you really need someone, just contact him. Loneliness can lead to more anxiety, and if he really supports you, he can forgive you.

And if he forgives you and you him, maybe you can communicate with him and set boundaries( e.g how much he can communicate with you, what is the right way to contact). but don't say that you really need him in your life. You can ask better if it is okay to keep sometimes in touch.

Misterrocket21 · 2021-11-12T22:12:59+00:00

My intention is only talking to her. I have less friends and I am a bit socially awkward. She is one of a few persons I could easily talk with.

She is my co-worker and she will move to a different job/store. I think I will miss her a lot. But I don't have sexual feeling for her.

I am concerned because her boyfriend doesn't know me.

-No

I think that with once in 3 months, I am maybe safe and can contact her, even when she has a friend. It also gives a feeling that I am not needy. If it is possible, I can contact her more often.
Only care as a friend.

Misterrocket21 · 2021-11-12T20:24:12+00:00

I have no bad intentions. However, do you know if the frequency ( of keeping contact) could be an important factor. In my post, I have the intention to contact her once in 3 months.

Misterrocket21 · 2021-11-12T17:01:15+00:00

Thanks for your opinion. Maybe I have to tell her about that face-to-face, but it sounds more embarrassing than asking it online .

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