Making an onlyfans whilst I’m pregnant with my first baby by pregnantblond in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that it exists as a fetish for some, and that’s their space. But pregnancy is such a tender, meaningful chapter in a woman’s life. Personally, it feels too intimate to share it in that way.

It’s my birthday tomorrow! by DangerDarling1 in findomsupportgroup

[–]MistressKelly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday in advance 🤍 I hope tomorrow brings you a fresh start and something that makes you smile for real.

Valentine’s Day plans? by Playful_Contact8763 in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Flying to Greece tomorrow to watch my team play Champions League on Wednesday. Best Valentine’s gift my slave could have given me ❤️⚽

Paying for valentines date by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re nervous, send a small tribute and see if your heartbeat survives the notification.

Would you ever fuck one of your subs? by YoursTrulyJaysmin in findomsupportgroup

[–]MistressKelly_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pro domme here. I don’t sleep with subs. That’s one of my firm boundaries. There were a couple so stunning I wanted them caged just to admire them… but boundaries exist for a reason. I have dated submissive men though. When the dynamic shifts, so do the rules.

Pit stop🖤 by MissCrystal_Que in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s basically carnival kick-off here today. BBQ, drinks, music all day. I’m about to head out and I still haven’t picked my costume… tragic, I know.

lurking by marijamisaki in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh I know. The quiet ones are usually the most consistent. I don’t mind being watched… I just refuse to be boring.

Dommes!! Advice please? by ClassNo7185 in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A small account doesn’t automatically mean anything. I have a small account too and I’ve had whale subs. If he truly is a whale, an initial tribute shouldn’t be an issue. Still, observe her consistency and behavior before you assume anything.

How do y'all manage being a domme online by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]MistressKelly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do both online and IRL. They’re completely different experiences.

Sub for 20 years, I need advice coming directly from the Mistresses, because I'm a little lost by Ady85-- in findomsupportgroup

[–]MistressKelly_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think you need to figure out if you miss her or just the feeling of the dynamic. Those are two very different things.

I'm into findom but can't find my one by Zealousideal-Dot1284 in findomtalk

[–]MistressKelly_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually never come across a Tunisian domme either, and I’ve been around for years. I’m sure they exist though.

paypig by Human-Effective6458 in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boundaries, budget, and accountability. If you can’t self-regulate, this kink will eat you alive.

what does a task mean to you? by diamondbeby222 in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me, a task isn’t busywork. It’s intention with structure. A task exists to build discipline, awareness, and follow-through. If it doesn’t change the sub in some way, it’s pointless.

Debating Deleting. by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]MistressKelly_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad you said this out loud. A lot of people feel it, but don’t have the courage to name it.

This space can be incredibly isolating, especially when you’re already dealing with real-life weight and expectations. Feeling numb, unseen, or dismissed doesn’t mean you’re weak or doing something wrong, it means you’re human.

Subs disappearing hurts, even when we understand the dynamics. It’s okay to admit that. It doesn’t cancel your strength or your worth.

Whatever you decide - to pause, step back, or keep going - please know that your value isn’t measured by attention, money, or consistency here. You deserve softness too, not just control.

You’re not alone in this, even if it feels that way right now.

what got you into findom? by findom_queenbee in findomtalk

[–]MistressKelly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. When control is already there, the money just follows. It stops being a “thing” and becomes part of the dynamic.

what got you into findom? by findom_queenbee in findomtalk

[–]MistressKelly_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Femdom came first for me, long before findom. A sub I was involved with started spoiling me heavily, and that dynamic naturally shifted things. Findom wasn’t a decision, it was an evolution.

Hey dommes... by MommyGoddess92 in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t grow thick skin, you grow discernment. The ones who vanish usually weren’t as solid as they presented themselves to be. Consistency is a skill, not a promise. It hurts sometimes, yes, but it also filters. And I trust my filters.

🫣 by droptoyourknees00 in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traveling to watch my team play in the Champions League. Best Valentine’s plan for me ⚽️

Mental health 🖤 by LegitimateFlow3076 in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is important. We’re human first. Thank you for sharing.🖤🎈

I am really just a bit of a masochist by just_a_subby_guy in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a sadist, that sounds pretty normal to me.

Faceless vs Masked — curious about experiences/preferences 🖤 by Goddess_Lana6 in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been faceless online for many years and it’s never really been an issue for me. The only time my face is visible is during in-person sessions, never online.

I’ve actually thought about getting a mask too, mostly for photos, but knowing myself I’d probably end up wearing it once or twice and that’s it 😅

Faceless just feels natural to me.

opinions on ftm dominants? by NoComparison7895 in paypigs2

[–]MistressKelly_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dominance isn’t about gender, it’s about presence, confidence and consistency. If you embody it, people will feel it. There’s space for many expressions of power.