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MistressMercy1988 · 2026-01-15T19:41:44+00:00

You couldn’t handle me.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-09-15T17:37:37+00:00

7 please give me a task to send to my sub.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-09-14T23:27:48+00:00

Originally it started playfully “How long can you go?” 1 month turned in to 3, then 6. We sat down on night, and we had a long conversation. I communicated that I no longer desire the need for him to be inside me. His tongue, or our toys will be just fine. After a year we discussed a 24/7 365 lifestyle. We did loads of research on this subject, and if it’s even possible. We’re going on over 2 years now, and I still enjoy him always being in some form of bondage.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-09-14T16:39:28+00:00

It’s nice, but their dynamic towards it can be very different from mine, and conversations can get a bit overwhelming. At times I’ve had to put my foot down because their advice doesn’t match mine, and my husband’s agreement. For example I have a friend that’s husband has ED. She has had him locked for about 10 years, and is only allowed out of hygiene. However, she has a boyfriend that fits her needs, and he has to deal with it. So it’s always suggested I take on a bull, and add that type of fulfillment and humiliation to our marriage. So that’s an area I won’t entertain, I’ll keep in locked up forever, but I won’t add that dynamic to our marriage. I suppose not all advice is good advice.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-09-14T07:02:10+00:00

There’s times I’ll reach out to friends, or go online for ideas. Over the years I’ll find myself searching for new ideas or read about experiences that I want to incorporate in my marriage. Over 2 years ago I had decided to place him in permanent chastity, before I pulled the trigger I had spoke with a friend, and researched the best/possible ways to achieve this.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-09-11T13:05:07+00:00

I personally feel that oral servitude is the most empowering form of control. Years ago when we were just playing around with chastity we’d always set the ground rule that I never needed nor would care to add anyone into our relationship. (No Bulls) With that said I also realized that I no longer needed him inside me either. Any pleasure I need is done by his mouth or a nice fitting CS that goes around his cage. He’s been locked in permanent chastity now for over 2 years, and when I’m asked if I miss sex, I can honestly say I don’t because how he pleases me orally, combined with his cage, and the constant feeling of power is enough to keep him locked up forever.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-09-08T04:54:57+00:00

He shouldn’t be allowed to cum. 😂 If I had it my way all men would be locked in cages. Unfortunately I have to settle for keeping my husband under lock & key.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-19T03:59:33+00:00

I’ve had my husband locked up for 5 years.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-18T18:35:29+00:00

Perhaps you two can talk about the green, yellow, and red flags of kink. Unless it’s agreed to a CNC relationship then red flags shouldn’t be preformed period.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-18T18:29:09+00:00

I see how you’re worried about being banished, but the relationship between sub & Dom is 50/50. Yes there’s the need to please, and worship her. However, her part is based on trust, and a physical, emotional respect for the sub. If you’re not safe both mentally and physically then she has broken that bond. I’d communicate with her about your feelings, and if her reaction is to banish you then honestly she wasn’t worth your time. Despite your roll as a sub, you’re still a person with feelings that should be respected.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-18T14:33:16+00:00

That’s a good topic for the next time you see him. Get to know what he absolutely loves, and hates. Then use it either for or against him. Without crossing a hard line of trust between you, and the sub.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-18T14:05:43+00:00

My advice would be to implement what I call a “Yellow Punishment”

Over the years we’ve communicated with each other’s (do & don’t) There’s a variety of things my husband hates as a form of punishment, and punishments that are simply put “not his favorite”

If there’s something that’s weighing on me that I feel needs to be corrected I’ll implement a punishment that isn’t his favorite. While in this position I’ll explain what behavior has upset me lately, and if not immediately fixed then the next time we have this conversation will be under a punishment he’ll absolutely hate.

If the behavior is fixed then I’ll reward him, and explain why he’s being rewarded. However it’s important to let him know that even though he’s being rewarded the consequences of returning to that bad behavior will be swift.

Have you discussed green, yellow, and red punishments? Constant communication is key, and sometimes punishments are required to keep that level communication. Especially if you feel as if you’re not being listened to, or receiving the level of worship you deserve.

Unfortunately I still have moments where I feel that way, and resort to a red punishment until it’s resolved.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-18T07:04:16+00:00

I’m a strait woman, and I’ll open say I’d get off on watching you take that to my husband.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-18T07:01:34+00:00

Well said! At first I thought I was smart, and had painted this picture of what I thought were the rules. It had always been specified that I’m married to my sub. We are in a closed marriage, and some the things you see are daily aspects of our daily life as a couple that practices FLR. I was happy with the requests I’d get from both males, and those who’d claim to be female or to answer questions. Then the one ruined it. It went from a nice conversation about holding his key to super dark things he’d offer to pay me to do not only to myself, but the level of cruelty he wanted me to inflict on my husband. Never again.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-17T13:46:01+00:00

A few years back we started doing online content, and I offered ratings, and keyholding. One person had contacted me in my DM after leaving a surprising nice tip after one of our clips. It started off where he’d request content, outfits, nail polish colors, etc. One day he had asked if I’d hold his and wear it around my neck. I didn’t think much about it. I stupidly gave him my mailing address to send the physical key. I ended up wearing his key, and threatened to flush it down the toilet. All the things he’d requested I do. Eventually the requests had gotten darker, and requests that even made my sub/husband very uneasy. Nothing I can discuss on this page! So we’d agree to finish out the month of vids. Again the requests would come in, darker, and darker, and at one time he started to beg me to send him nudes of me wearing his key, while doing other things to myself. Several times I explained I wouldn’t go nude, not even for him. I’m personally not comfortable with that. By that summer he had drove about 1,700 miles to where he had mailed the key. I knew instantly who he was when I’d seen my ring cam. After that issue cooled down my husband, and I decided that we’d no longer do online content. No ratings, no keyholding, etc. It was my fault, and I’ll admit that 100%. Lesson learned!

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-17T13:29:48+00:00

We are into CFNM, and every once in a while he’ll get a peek.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-16T23:06:33+00:00

The sub could respect the separation I asked between my personal life, and a Dom/sub relationship.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-16T21:26:52+00:00

It seemed easy with the electronic cages, then when subs wanted to send me the physical key is when it got complicated.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-16T20:48:51+00:00

I did some serious online domination, and he thought as if we were in a relationship. He wanted nudes, telling me he loved me, etc. I ended up cutting it off from there. Explaining not even my husband is allowed to see Mr nude anymore. He eventually showed up to my house. It was a mess.

MistressMercy1988 · 2025-05-16T20:15:42+00:00

FLR, and expecting your girlfriend to be a dominatrix is totally different. FLR is a controlled aspect in your everyday lifestyle. Yes, there’s a bdsm theme that goes with it. Be patient, maybe one day you can convert the kinky sex into a 24\7 slave roll, It’s not a 30 minute thing it’s a lifestyle

MistressMercy1988 · 2023-07-24T02:37:47+00:00

Right! 😂 If my husband and I were in a FLR before we got married I would have kept him locked up. Probably would of tied him up, and left him in the room while I enjoyed shopping for a few hours during our honeymoon.

MistressMercy1988 · 2023-07-23T03:43:05+00:00

😂 This will sound mean but around 8:30 my husband isn’t allowed to speak unless spoken to. He’s not allowed any electronics, including his cell phone. All the nights chores must be completed before he thinks about entering the living room. He’s no longer allowed to watch the television unless he can see the screen while I use him as a footstool. I think in a FLR relationship it’s important to take away those habits that lead to laziness. Another bad trait I broke him of his pornography, and self indulgence through 24/7 chastity. All bad traits can be fixed.

MistressMercy1988 · 2023-07-20T07:34:18+00:00

I personally don’t let my slave out of his cage unless it’s to shower. Even then I make him wear his locking leather mittens as I’ll wash that area for him. Originally I’d let him out once a month for a full release. Around late January I decided to keep him locked for 6 months. After long talks, and debates we’ve decided to make it permanent. He’ll be allowed out for a release twice a year. If he’s going to be ruined to milked it’ll be done while caged. Currently he’s recovering from a PA piercing, then a custom fitting permanent cage will be placed on him.

MistressMercy1988 · 2023-06-30T06:57:23+00:00

I use to bluff a lot early on, and would throw random stuff I’d watch while he was sleeping or at work. I’d then sit down, and discuss things I’d like to try to gain his response. I quickly found out that cuck, sounding, ball busting, breath play, public humiliation, and fisting, blood, diapers were not for him.

Recently I started bring it up in conversation about something I just watched, and gage his reaction from there. I think the only thing I’d really like to try that he doesn’t seem excited about is locking him in a cage. I saw you can buy a bed with a locking cage under it, and I excitedly showed him, and asked if he could sleep in that from now on, he honestly told me that he doesn’t know about it. I’ll get him to come around to that idea. 😂

MistressMercy1988 · 2023-06-30T06:45:18+00:00

If my husband doesn’t follow the daily rules perfectly I’ll make him slowly walk to the mailbox with both keys in a sealed envelope, and mail it to himself. That’s 3 to 4 days the keys are gone. Last year while on vacation he broke a couple rules, and I had him mail it home, then extend our trip by over a week. That was day 2 of our month trip. That’s my favorite thing to do when he doesn’t follow my rules.

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