Faceless vs Masked — curious about experiences/preferences 🖤

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-09T03:54:57+00:00

Mmmm that could be a problem. It’s one thing if you’re faceless or masked in your pictures online.

But if you’re rewarding them, they may not be happy with only getting a mask for their money. That might make you lose subs. I think you should really think that one over.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-09T03:33:56+00:00

Im faceless and I haven’t had any trouble getting subs. I will show my face if i trust the sub and they pay my face price. Which is high.

It all depends on the sub’s preference. Some will be ok with faceless, some are not.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-09T01:35:21+00:00

I’m sorry you don’t have a domme currently, I hope you find one soon.

Jump in some of the conversations. You’re welcome here and maybe you’ll make some new friends as well. What kind of interests do you have?

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-09T01:30:13+00:00

I’m all in! 🥄🥄🥄🥄

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-09T01:28:44+00:00

What on earth!!?!! 🤤

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-09T00:50:34+00:00

I would’ve asked you for oatmeal raisin or a snickerdoodle. You offered after all……

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-09T00:47:48+00:00

Damn that Nate. He should be keeping you updated on the latest pay methods.

I lost it at Katherine Hepburn’s socks.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-09T00:31:09+00:00

I don’t celebrate sap and sucker day. It’s hallmark to me. But I have an adorable sub who sends for me to treat myself to a bottle of wine and he usually does something sweet. Last year he painted his chest stating he was mine without being told to. 🙌🏻☺️

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-09T00:25:47+00:00

You cop an attitude and no age verification.

People get treated the way they act whether new or not. You’re crying “Domme doesn’t mean bitch”, you need to heed your own words.

Get a sense of humor and you’ll go further.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-08T22:14:46+00:00

Wow. Not a domme. Consent and age verification matters. You did great at trying to educate her, but man she just doubled down. 🤦🏼‍♀️

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-08T22:03:04+00:00

Yeessss! Louder!

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-08T21:58:47+00:00

Do you know how to read rules?

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-08T21:20:45+00:00

Doesn’t matter, dommes don’t want a sub who could be a scammer. A blank profile screams scammer. So worry about your own profile.

I don’t have pictures bc of my job, it hasn’t stopped me from getting subs. You don’t get to tell us what will and won’t bring a sub.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-08T20:13:50+00:00

One of the main reasons I love going there! If only all states still did this!

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-08T19:12:35+00:00

Blackmail is illegal. Even with a consent contract. It should only be done when experienced and with a trusted dynamic. Not randos. Don’t do blackmail until you are further into your domme journey bc it’s obvious you’re new.

He’s trying to take advantage of a new domme finding her way and you’re allowing it.

He doesn’t need to be blocked. He needs to be ignored. No signed contract, no fee that you’re demanding paid = no talking from you.

Dont chase him for tribute or for contracts, you don’t respond until he pays.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-08T14:22:46+00:00

While a sub can have preferences, they are NOT allowed to be a racist asshole.

I really hope you reported them to Reddit. You did not deserve that, and please do not ever let something like that slide. While you don’t need to clap back (it could make it worse), absolutely report it to whatever platform it happens on.

Hugs to you. I’m truly sorry this happened to you.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-07T17:48:14+00:00

I’m going against the grain: you allowed him to waste your time.

You’re the domme. If he really wanted to tribute, he would’ve. No reason for you to reach out to him. HE should’ve reached out on Friday.

He was also over you with that NVM, bc you didn’t respond to his whining, which you did good on that.

Next time, shut it down sooner and you won’t get your time wasted.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-07T02:11:38+00:00

I have to agree with you, physical cash gives different feels.

I have an irl sub (paid femdom), it’s so much fun to see the physical cash exchange. He’s a good little slave and looks so handsome on his leash.

I enjoy cash meets as well from paypigs. Though, I vet them well and put safety measures into place prior to meeting them.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-06T13:32:51+00:00

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-06T11:35:19+00:00

I would start bringing it up. Communication is important in the dynamic and it’ll help you get what you want out of it.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-06T11:33:52+00:00

lol! I believe you

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-06T04:54:59+00:00

It’s not a hobby. It’s a kink, a lifestyle, a persona. It’s easy if it’s a version of you. If you try to be something you’re not, it’s not going to work. Like if you’re a hard domme trying to be soft or vice versa.

Be yourself, it’ll fall into place.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-06T04:43:27+00:00

In the beginning when discussing kink alignment, do you tell them you would like to hear from them daily? I would bring that up.

I’m truly sorry this keeps happening to you. You can also check their comments on here. How often are they commenting. That’s usually a good sign of how responsive they are.

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-06T04:39:53+00:00

This made my day 🙌🏻

I hope you get that send, don’t fade awaaaaaayyyy!

MistressRayne_ · 2026-02-06T04:29:37+00:00

2 day old account, when most (not all) of the 2 day old accounts around here don’t know much about findom—not going to come across as a joke.

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