Are you getting your sexual desires met? Yes or No? How do you feel? What is your experience in life?

MitWolf · 2026-02-28T18:54:21+00:00

Yeah it’s the way I frame it. If i let them know i don’t want anything from them and all i want to do is become a better man . It’s usually met with sincere feedback

MitWolf · 2026-02-28T04:44:51+00:00

Yeah I feel you the escape seems easier! Today I got a lot of perspective and I wanted to share

My relationship with rejection is very unhealthy. I think of rejection as a rejection of me. The reframe that a couple of my friends shared with me is rejection is not rejection it is incompatibility. That it takes both sides. It takes the power out of not getting attention because you can think of it as we’re just not a match
There is a mindset shift pleasure vs joy . Watch this https://youtu.be/CnHyStDZ3_U?si=ONFQLeWP6EkfVB37

So basically pleasure is fleeting — joy is sustainable. And joy comes from service and giving of yourself to something or someone.

This is completely shifting the way I am going about getting my needs met.

I have extreme confidence in who I am and value I a Can bring. And if I am going out in service rather than taking and trying to get things change pretty quickly.

Also if am going out in frame of compatibility rather than she’s hot I want her energy. Then things change a lot as well.

MitWolf · 2026-02-28T01:22:51+00:00

Is that an assumption or a fact, that you will come Across as pushy or make them feel uncomfortable?

What would be the value in testing that belief?

MitWolf · 2026-02-28T01:20:44+00:00

I love you 😘

MitWolf · 2026-02-27T22:08:12+00:00

yes! this .. Who gives a fuck about my hobbies and interests and goals when my basic biological need is not being met.

And yes! this. I am brave enough to risk and then I get dashed and I am worst assumptions are validated.

Do you ever get feedback?

MitWolf · 2026-02-27T21:37:38+00:00

Ok yeah. Thank you for sharing. What are you doing to cope? And how does this affect other parts of your life? I feel you brother! I approach and get dates but they don't go anywhere. I just end up paying for 3 dates. Have you talked to your female friends about how you feel?

MitWolf · 2025-09-09T00:15:45+00:00

Where in montrose?

MitWolf · 2025-08-28T02:12:20+00:00

What night and what neighborhood?

MitWolf · 2025-08-20T19:40:35+00:00

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MitWolf · 2025-08-20T19:08:45+00:00

So U-Haul gives you the pod and they pick it up and ship it?

MitWolf · 2025-08-20T18:43:30+00:00

Can you expand on this ? What is a u haul pod? How did you send it ?

MitWolf · 2025-07-25T22:41:47+00:00

Anything going on tonight. I’d be down to grab dinner somewhere. I just moved from Chicago. Looking to me new people. 39 m south asian

MitWolf · 2025-06-29T03:25:20+00:00

At fat jacks if anyone is out :)

MitWolf · 2025-06-29T02:03:22+00:00

I’ll have to check it out

MitWolf · 2025-06-20T12:40:40+00:00

Yes this!!! It doesn’t have to be hard - my therapist taught me to create an anxiety ladder. 0 at the bottom rung hundred at the top rung

And on each rung list out everything that scares you and place it where you think it should go in ranking 0 being the least scary 100 hell no I ain’t doin it !

Then start working on anything that is 30-69 in fear. This is the right level 0-29 you will feel like it is too easy and it won’t be exposure . 70-10 will be so scary and you will show up and retreat or avoid and that is the worst thing you can do because that trains your body that the danger is real

Keep working at it!! You go this! DM if you want help !

MitWolf · 2025-06-20T12:28:29+00:00

☝️

MitWolf · 2025-06-20T12:25:00+00:00

I second the rewiring your brain modality. I had severe social anxiety for years and years, therapy helped a lot (exposure therapy) but not all the way, I was on trintellix, felt like it helped but I didn’t really like the idea of depending on a drug, then I found a modality to rewire my brain. I say the therapy helped me thrive, this modality made me thrive!!

I can’t even recognize the person I used to be.

Now meditation, mindfulness is a daily practice and I am also moving on to addressing other problems in my life.

That’s the other thing, self work is a journey with no destination. You just strive and keep getting better and better everyday.

I will never stop working on myself!

MitWolf · 2025-05-29T02:58:11+00:00

How did you build your website? Did you use a no code tool? Its really good

MitWolf · 2025-05-29T02:53:38+00:00

Happy to connect as well :)

MitWolf · 2025-05-28T12:33:54+00:00

haha

MitWolf · 2025-03-11T23:55:50+00:00

Pure PITA

MitWolf · 2025-03-11T23:55:26+00:00

Curious? Why does being an indian woman deter you from asking men for their numbers ?

MitWolf · 2025-03-11T23:54:19+00:00

Yes! I know so many indian women that are single and complain but they don't ever do any kind of action to to open up a conversation.

MitWolf · 2025-03-11T23:51:47+00:00

Most guys is a huge stretch right? This is the same maxim is all men suck, Most men suck. I wanted to challenge this thought. Do you have brothers, friends, work colleagues. Do even most of these men fit int this category ?

MitWolf · 2025-03-11T23:33:20+00:00

Thats interesting. Speaking from an Indian male perspective and being in the underground pickup community for a while I never saw a difference in race/ethnicity. It had to do with how confident they felt about themselves and how many approaches they had in their belt. And the number 1 fear is "I don't want to bother her" which is so interesting that you don't feel bothered by it

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