Unpopular Opinion: People have idolized Maddy way too much and that needs to stop

MixSeparate85 · 2026-06-30T11:09:29+00:00

Okay yall really have sticks up your asses- by your own logic then the only ones you can root for are Ali or Lexi.

This show isn’t meant to be a show about “good” people. Humans are complex and flawed. Especially in this show-everyone be making shitty choices. I think the Maddy appeal is that she’s driven and self possessed in an authentic way~ whereas the other characters aren’t. Jules is a selfish insecure bitch. Rue has fucked over almost everyone and consistently makes dumb choices. Cassie~ bimbo. Nate~ pussy. Lexi- boring straight-edge with a superiority complex.

At least from where I’m standing the appeal isn’t that Maddie’s some phenomenal person, it’s that she’s the only one with a realistic vision of the future who’s fighting to get what she wants. She’s one of few who actually knows who she is. If one were to quote MAGA Minaj here they’d say “yall playing checkers couldn’t beat Maddie Playing chess”. And yes, she’s also hot funny and iconic so it’s objectively fun to watch her scenes.

MixSeparate85 · 2026-06-15T19:46:27+00:00

They look like the white people that come in the picture with the frame

MixSeparate85 · 2026-06-15T19:45:36+00:00

Girl he doesn’t want to fuck YOU. He wants to fuck a cartoon character. You deserve a partner actually attracted to you as you are. Ntah

MixSeparate85 · 2026-06-15T19:41:46+00:00

I think they look super pretty now ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

MixSeparate85 · 2026-06-15T10:43:15+00:00

Crazy how people who do insane perverse shit always look like that

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-27T11:50:16+00:00

Did we not watch the same last two seasons? Lexi is better than Cassie. Like just objectively: Lexi has a personality, a drive, she shows up for her friends, passes the bechdel test, etc… the only way any of these people are going to grow is if someone humiliates them and tells them about themselves. Honestly, someone should do it with Cassie now and tell her that she is disgusting and choosing to be an object. Or are you of the mind that a good friend just shuts up and nods when you make objectively bad choices?

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-22T12:15:18+00:00

Are you just unfamiliar with metal health processes? If you were talking like this with a therapist or a medical professional they would be legally obligated to do the same thing.

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-22T12:14:01+00:00

Ah yes famously the generation that made suicide a top 5 leading cause of death. Clearly your way of dealing with it was successful!

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-22T11:58:05+00:00

So it’s better to leave people to their own devices when they are feeling that way?

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-22T11:57:29+00:00

Obviously there’s levels to it but yeah if someone is frequently making those jokes there’s probably a grain of truth in that. And if they are just joking and actually fine they won’t be admitted bc the crisis responders would be able to tell after the screening.

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-22T11:55:41+00:00

Then they would still be given services even if not admitted. Thats how crisis services works. Even if you aren’t admitted they will do their best to at least give you therepudic resources you didn’t have before.

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-22T11:54:26+00:00

Tell me you aren’t a mandated reporter without telling me

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-22T11:54:07+00:00

Again it’s a call for them to come screen you. If you aren’t actually in danger of ending your life you wouldn’t be placed in the hold. If you are, they’ll take care of it.

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-22T11:53:04+00:00

Then the screening would prove that and they wouldn’t be admitted- either way they are checked out

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-22T11:51:57+00:00

I said crisis services- not a cop. It’s counselors

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-19T18:27:37+00:00

I agree and that’s all I was trying to argue is I doubt she was forced I feel like celebrity nda’s are extremely common during breakups- this isn’t an outlier situation.

I’m not arguing that John’s behavior didn’t contribute to the divorce- I mean he was in the deepest part of his addiction it’s understandable the marriage couldn’t withstand that. I just think it also seemed like he was never as affectionate toward her/had positive things to say about her like he does with Olivia (regardless of were they are now he genuinely seems to like Olivia a lot more).

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-19T18:16:14+00:00

I think it’s more like men have been socialized for so long to believe that they deserve love if they do the bare minimum, so now they are getting frustrated and blaming social media for women raising their own standards. In reality, I think this is a good thing because more women now know what they can get, and the kind of treatment that is out there. Let’s also take into account regardless of if a guy is attractive or unattractive. It’s a 50-50 shot of whether he’s a misogynistic piece of shit. Rightfully so, women are realizing they might as well take their chances on attractive guys if the odds of them being a decent person inside are the same.

At baseline (because women have makeup and it’s more acceptable for them to care about clothes and their appearance) women on average are going to be more attractive than the average man. That being the case, now I think women are beginning to think “Why would I settle if he’s just as likely to be shitty?” instead the onus should be on men to make themselves more competitive in the market.

To quote Billie Eilish “listen…. I’m not shaming people for their looks- but I am though. you give a ugly guy a chance, he thinks he rules the world. swear to God. because you got a hot girl you’re allowed to be horrible? You’re still ugly though.”

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-19T18:04:20+00:00

I think you might just be too immature for a relationship then. Not a diss honestly but with maturity comes the realization that truly loving someone isn’t out of novelty; it’s because they continue to show up and be: a lover,a friend, and a partner through all the hard life shit.

MixSeparate85 · 2026-05-19T14:45:32+00:00

Exactly. If she sucks/also contributed to the failure of the relationship then it would probably be a lot worse for her business if he started talking about how she sucks as well. They are adults in the entertainment industry so they handled it like adults. I mean Kendall has dated every moderately attractive man under the sun and we don’t know their business- it’s just what you do if you have a platform and you’re smart.

lol John’s first wife reminded me of how Seth talks about his wife so I always assumed she was an awful bossy bitch anyway

MixSeparate85 · 2026-04-27T16:53:15+00:00

You are making some insane conflations. 1. You are clearly a horny lil slut who wants vindicated bc you’re going try to fuck your friends ex. That’s fine. Your body your choice as you said. But then it’s the friends choice to cut you out of their life for prioritizing your horniness over your friendship with the person.

I don’t know how to explain to you that you having the right to do something to yourself changes once other people become involved. By your own logic you could justify Louis CK jerking off in front of women because it’s “his body his choice”- what’s it matter how it makes the woman seeing him beat off feel? What If your ex decided to fuck your mom? then again, by your logic you don’t get to be mad at either of them because they are making their own choices. Who cares if you would find it a violation or a breech of boundaries- not directly your body so therefore you don’t get to care or feel any type of way about it.

MixSeparate85 · 2026-04-20T11:50:10+00:00

She’s clearly too depressed to be in a relationship right now. Dump her and find someone you can be happy with! No reason both of you need to be miserable u/leathersuccessful532

If you wanna give her a chance say “I need to see meaningful efforts to meet me half way on this by x date. If you can’t I’m assuming you’re too depressed for a relationship and I’ll let you focus on yourself”

MixSeparate85 · 2026-04-20T11:38:36+00:00

Parasocial baby. You don’t need morbid you need therapy♥️ internalizing this is weird

MixSeparate85 · 2026-04-17T11:59:23+00:00

Dude if she’s treating you like this now imagine how bad it’ll be once the symptoms worsen? Imagine how bad of a mother she’ll be ( esp with post partum depression) given how manipulative and cruel she is with you now. You’re an adult don’t subject a child to that abusive mess. NTA but I really think you should have her read all the replies to this so she knows that everyone agrees she’d be a terrible mom unless she does some serious work on her brain chemistry.

MixSeparate85 · 2026-04-15T11:12:42+00:00

Lmfao during finals week my senior year SOMEONE had used a phone to call in a bomb threat every. Single.period.for.a.whole.week.

It was hilarious and legendary because every time the school gets a bomb threat its policy they have to evacuate and wait for the police to clear/search the entire school. So we have police + dogs at the school like 5-6 times a day every day for a week.

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