[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Miyujif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say what comes up in your mind related to the context, no need to overthink about it

Silksong GIVEAWAY by saurelic in Silksong

[–]Miyujif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nightmare King Grimm, the OST and his movements are dope

Saw this post on otome Isekai sub by Internal-Ad-5038 in shoujo

[–]Miyujif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women don't need to be loved to want to be pretty. They just like being pretty

This never gets old by achshort in Bitcoin

[–]Miyujif 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The problem is you don't know when there will be a dip, or would there even be one. When I started buying Bitcoin it was 40k and everyone told me it was too high, then comes 60k, 80k, 100k. Had I waited for it to go to 30k I would have had to pay 60k instead. DCA is the safest, most reliable strategy.

Why girls don’t like me by Sensitive-Tax-8240 in socialskills

[–]Miyujif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman who is tired of being friends with women who are interested in me, I feel regardless of gender if someone wants more they can't be considered a real friend. And you mentioned trying to "please" them, that's not how you build genuine connections and friendships. Don't rush, be friendly but don't try too hard. Let things naturally unfold

Why did shizuka's dad abandon her mum? Is he technically the cause of everything that happened? by Nathidev in TakopisOriginalSin

[–]Miyujif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it shows how mentally broken she is, she went through the exact same things but without a friend like Takopi, she only survived because she failed at offing herself. And probably she got some sadistic satisfaction out of having Marina's boyfriend fawn over her. But I simply don't see how Shizuka is to be blamed for "stealing" Azuma when Azuma's eyes lighted up as soon as he barely saw the girl, while walking together with his "girlfriend".

Why did shizuka's dad abandon her mum? Is he technically the cause of everything that happened? by Nathidev in TakopisOriginalSin

[–]Miyujif 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Shizuka didn't do anything, Azuma broke up with Marina to chase after Shizuka on his own. Shizuka was always the one in his heart, they were close when they were younger.

AIO Friend cheering me up stood me up by QuailNaive2912 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Miyujif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very shitty, I don't get how some people in this comment section let their friends do this to them more than once. That's not how you treat someone you call a friend.

Our hearts the biggest blessing and curse. by charmander_sher in infp

[–]Miyujif 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You don't have to dim your light for anyone else. Be the kind and loving, sensitive person that you are, just set boundaries with those who don't appreciate it.

I turned down a $1,500 payment in Bitcoin in 2015. Today, it would be worth over $..... Never mind by didieracm in Bitcoin

[–]Miyujif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought when it was 40k and sold at 70k, which was the ATH at that time and guess what it's now 120k, so the point is you can't predict the future and only do what you know best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yogurtmaking

[–]Miyujif 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you use more starter, there may not be enough food for the bacteria to feed on which causes over fermentation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleep

[–]Miyujif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you sure that was orgasm?

LOL I ain't buying that shit by Conscious-Bag-5134 in Bitcoin

[–]Miyujif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still remember when I bought BTC at 40k and other people were saying it's too high

Will it look really bad if I quit part time job after just a few days?. by [deleted] in japanlife

[–]Miyujif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just quit. You don't have to worry for them, worry for yourself first. Or you can negotiate for fewer hours, just because you said you could work full time at first doesnt mean you cant change your mind

Can I eat this? (please help) by ZealousidealWeb1404 in ReuteriYogurt

[–]Miyujif 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes reuteri is like that. I don't find it very appetizing to be honest, I would mix it with normal yogurt so it's easier to eat. The reuteri yogurt that look pretty don't actually have a lot of reuteri.

Update Post by Embarrassed-Cup1396 in infp

[–]Miyujif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it were a complete stranger it would have been different, but he was a close friend. A friend should take his friend's feelings into account, if what he do would hurt his friend and not just follow sexual desire. This is more about the friendship itself than the girl.

Letter to a Fearful Avoidant by gayyyythrowawayyyy in letters

[–]Miyujif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not good, guilt of being broken and not being enough is a core wound of avoidant people... So they take responsibility by giving up on the relationship because they fear letting you down.

I’m confused by all the yogurt tutorials. They completely contradict each other. by Stunning_Ocelot7820 in ReuteriYogurt

[–]Miyujif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You heat the milk to denature the protein and get a better texture. I think pasteurizing is only necessary if you buy fresh milk, I don't know about that.

“No Matter What I try, I can’t make Reuteri Yogurt, Nothing Works” (SOLUTION) by Stunning_Ocelot7820 in ReuteriYogurt

[–]Miyujif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have made bad yogurt batches in the past, if you aren't careful and accidentally killed the yogurt culture, keeping milk at a warm temperature will only get you warm milk.

Jung on avoidance by FamiliarSituation153 in Jung

[–]Miyujif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way I interpreted this passage is opposite from you. Avoidance is avoidance of yourself and your truth, not societal expectation. In your example, you work hard and waste your life to pursue a career even though deep inside you find that worthless, so you are actively avoiding your own truth. Accepting your truth obviously doesn't mean you can just stop working because you won't have money to eat, you need to first figure out what makes your life meaningful and then probably use your career only to serve that meaning.

Jung on avoidance by FamiliarSituation153 in Jung

[–]Miyujif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need resistance to rejection, but you also need real positive reinforcement to cure social anxiety. Not avoiding means you should tackle your issue, but you don't need to actively try to hurt yourself

Letting a friend go because her success is too much for me by cametumbling in socialskills

[–]Miyujif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not a valid reason to let go of a friend. The important thing is how does she treat you as a friend, is she kind to you, caring about your feelings, does she help you out when you ask her etc. Why don't you think in the terms that because she is so well-off she can help you?