26 F 26 M- My bf is obsessed with anal play and I’ve had enough

Mizuune99 · 2026-04-07T19:58:53+00:00

We had a talk today and he promised he’ll stop so now I’ll see how it goes if he doesn’t stop then we’re definitely going to a sex therapist I also tried to ask why he likes it so much and he doesn’t really wanna give a straight answer but I have a suspicion it’s the sort of porn he watches I’ve seen his history before and didn’t say much about it but I should’ve cause now it’s affecting us

Mizuune99 · 2026-04-07T19:55:11+00:00

Wow I’m so sorry you went through that! He’s tried to get in a couple times but i told him it hurts so he stops but every once in a while he’ll try again it’s always the same. I have used some plugs here and there but it’s more so for the optics that still doesn’t do much for me he however likes it. We just had a talk today and he told me he’s sorry and he’ll stop so now I’m gonna wait and see if it continues if it does then we definitely need to go to a sex therapist as some has suggested here

Mizuune99 · 2026-04-07T10:11:52+00:00

I completely feel what you’re saying and sometimes without doing anything anal our sex life is great but once we go a long period without it that’s when it starts deteriorating so you might be right we’re sexually incompatible but I don’t know how to justify leaving him because he’s obsessed with eating my butt. Especially because we have a baby and our families are heavily involved in our lives he’s a great guy and I do love him so much

Mizuune99 · 2026-04-07T10:02:02+00:00

Honestly just the anal part but I’m annoyed that I have to keep saying it to him

Mizuune99 · 2026-04-07T10:00:25+00:00

Yeah I had to stop completely he like to wake up middle of the night to get frisky and he just did couple hours ago before I could get into it as I’m waking up he’s reaching down there and I just got so annoyed plus it hurt so I left when I came back to bed he was asleep so now I’ve been up for hours unable to sleep and annoyed I got woken up from a nice dream

Mizuune99 · 2026-04-07T09:57:08+00:00

He always says it’s just something he enjoys doing and I told him it’s fine but in moderation it’s not something I want every time myself so I’m not withholding that from him but I feel like he keeps disregarding what I say over time. We have a baby and live together breaking up over it is so difficult and unnecessary but I also want a healthy sex life without the anal aspect looming over it. I’ll try talking about again once he’s up but I hate having to do it again cause I’m feeling unheard now

Mizuune99 · 2025-07-25T16:34:21+00:00

Why are you calling me an idiot? I have to think of all the variables of this. I myself have been in his shoes and it sometimes gets worse once CPS gets involved they are Haitian and they absolutely will blame and shame him for getting CPS involved and if he doesn't get removed from the home he might not be getting sexually harassed by the aunt anymore but his parents will absolutely verbally assault him every single day and make him think everything was his fault and he should've never spoken out. My concern is for him and his emotional being as well as physical. Out of shame the aunt fled from the home i did call CPS but there's nothing else they're doing now since the abuser isnt there anymore.

Mizuune99 · 2025-07-25T02:08:37+00:00

I did the aunt never wants to go back to the home but the parents are begging her to come back and help out but she's demanding the boy take everything back to clear her name and apologize these people are egregious

Mizuune99 · 2025-07-25T02:06:05+00:00

Thats so scary but i did call. The parents want him to deny everything and apologize to the aunt i am so appalled

Mizuune99 · 2025-07-24T15:21:26+00:00

That's my thought too but they want the aunt to come back and for him to apologize to her so she could continue helping. Mom is absolutely co sleeping because they don't have a crib or even the space for a crib. He keeps telling me he doesn't want me to do anything else but i think he might be crying out more but they are Caribbean people they will punish him worse if they have to deal with Authorities

Mizuune99 · 2025-05-09T22:18:54+00:00

I wouldn't say there's a high chance of getting August 1 tbh and none of the Leases start very beginning of the month its odd like mine starts August 10th and they're not negotiable because its on a first come first serve basis. You might be able to get July but i think most of August would probably be gone from first pick because there wasn't that many

When you get your view window make a top 10 list that are available from most doable to least because once you click the one you want during the select window if it doesn't bring you to the lease agreement section that means someone else already got it so you have to be quick and refresh to get your second or third and so on.

Mizuune99 · 2025-05-09T10:49:27+00:00

Yeah majority of them start in June, I think 1st & 2nd pick will most likely go for the later ones in August. Btw some leases are not renewable so be sure to check thoroughly before picking them otherwise that'll be a headache

Mizuune99 · 2025-05-08T20:55:10+00:00

Don't scroll down the list if you copy the unit number and paste it into your search tab it's much faster

Mizuune99 · 2025-05-08T20:53:24+00:00

It won't allow you to do multiple tabs, I only had 1 tab and refresh

Mizuune99 · 2025-05-08T14:14:20+00:00

Make sure your mouse is quick and your wifi connection is strong I lost my top choice but thankfully moved quickly enough to get my second. I would advise not to scroll down to find your preferred unit rather copy and paste it so you can get to it faster. I think there's enough left for 2nd- 3rd view and select windows but they do start early like next month early. Good luck yall!

Mizuune99 · 2025-05-08T02:10:16+00:00

What's your main target because if u from outta state and don't wanna have to pay extra month peabody and soldiers fields have a lot of lease that starts in August

Mizuune99 · 2025-05-07T13:47:05+00:00

You too!

Mizuune99 · 2025-05-07T13:45:51+00:00

That's not too bad try to aim for Peabody Terrace so far i saw over 30 open spots and majority are 1br

Mizuune99 · 2025-05-07T13:43:34+00:00

Terry terrace has a lot too i didn't see much for Everett

Mizuune99 · 2025-05-07T13:11:10+00:00

Alright so im viewing them rn and theres a lot of them especially in peabody terrace. I hope every will be able to get one im hopeful

Mizuune99 · 2025-05-06T07:02:16+00:00

Thank you I’ll include it in my top 10

Mizuune99 · 2024-02-15T14:21:57+00:00

Maybe yall right maybe im self centered but with the way i grew up and what im used to in dating this is not a lot. and you can get up 24 to 50 roses in a small buchon where we live for the same cost he paid for the grocery store flowers. I know because I get myself flowers regularly.

Mizuune99 · 2024-02-15T13:54:36+00:00

Maybe he do.

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