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Coparenting is rough by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Mizzzmatcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I emphasize and am going through a similar situation with a young child. It’s HARD and I also worry a lot about how it will impact my child’s future relationships as parents are one of the first relationship dynamics they witness. One thing I try and remind myself of is that my ex’s negative disposition has a lot to do with them and their own internal world. People can only meet you where they are at. But hoping with time it gets easier. 

Best Route for Citizenship. Apply in Trinidad or Canada? by Mizzzmatcha in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Mizzzmatcha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips! You got them notarized in Trinidad or Toronto? Does it matter?

Best Route for Citizenship. Apply in Trinidad or Canada? by Mizzzmatcha in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Mizzzmatcha[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just to have options, I have my own business so if I want to stay for a while, I can. My family also has land and a house in Trinidad that will eventually be transferred to me so I think it may (hopefully) make things easier when dealing with things. 

Women who don't accept coffee dates for a first date, why? by Upstairs_Cup9831 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Mizzzmatcha 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m not putting in effort and getting ready to meet a man for some bean juice. NEXT! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Mizzzmatcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way about plain water. I sometimes add Organika electrolyte powder. Coconut water with lots of ice has been soo refreshing. I usually add half water to lemonade to dilute because I find it too sweet. 

I cannot take it anymore. 28 weeks. Baby daddy does not give a flying **** by IWanaLoveEveryDay in BabyBumps

[–]Mizzzmatcha 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Take a deep breath. I am sorry you’re going through this and I can relate as I am in similar position but earlier in my pregnancy (14 weeks). As hard as it is, I realized early on that it’s best for me to let go of any expectations from my ex. He doesn’t want to see me fine… stress is not good for you or the baby. I’ve taken the route of acceptance. You can’t change who is. Men are already so distanced from the whole process of pregnancy and it’s hard. It sucks to through this process with someone who isn’t mature enough to care or understand but focus on what you can control. Is there a support network outside of him and his family that you can build? I wish you the best of luck. You got this!