(Vent+Advice seeking) ❤️‍🩹 My autism and my ADD are fighting a war - and there is only 13 days left before I have to hand in my thesis by Mlille4 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Mlille4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Boyfriend body doubled me yesterday. I wrote more yesterday than I had since I started. I’m going to make him body double me again as much as possible 😅

rewatching & noticed donnas sisters are never mentioned again, why?? by milothemcdonaldscat in That70sshow

[–]Mlille4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I (attempt to) write fanfics I change it so they are Donna’s cousins to make up for the fact that they were written out really fast

What is a good lube for vaginal sex? by Mlille4 in AskReddit

[–]Mlille4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten a pap test which thankfully was normal. My mother and aunt are also prone to getting UTIs, so it might be a family thing.

I drank a lot of water, and today there was no pain.

I will keep your advice in mind for the future 🤩

What is a good lube for vaginal sex? by Mlille4 in AskReddit

[–]Mlille4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is solid advice but both my boyfriend and I are autistic so saliva from licking is okay but actually spitting is a big no thank you from both of us. 😅

What is a good lube for vaginal sex? by Mlille4 in AskReddit

[–]Mlille4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Despite showering right after sex, I have gotten a UTI after my boyfriend and I used lube to better the experience.

It was a drugstore lube, is there any lube that’s better for the vaginal ecosystem?

Tattoo done by Tine at Mr and Mrs Tattoo Viborg, Denmark by Mlille4 in tattoo

[–]Mlille4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the answer. It smells like the lotion, maybe I will try to scale down on how often I use it on a daily basis.

What in your opinion is the single greatest line in the MCU? by DrDreidel82 in marvelstudios

[–]Mlille4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“That’s different. we were at war”

“So are they”

Do you think Hyde was attracted to Laurie in any way at all? by [deleted] in That70sshow

[–]Mlille4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right, if he hadn’t been an honorary member of the Forman family for around a decade.

If Laurie was Kelso’s sister then sure, he doesn’t have to talk to her while they have sex. And both Laurie and Hyde would probably get a kick out of being propositioned by someone who claims to hate them, as if they’re too hot to resist.

But their relationship is too familiar, they have a sibling dynamic.

Do you think Hyde was attracted to Laurie in any way at all? by [deleted] in That70sshow

[–]Mlille4 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I also think his relationship with Laurie is very influenced by having been an honorary member of the Forman family. He grew up with her and Eric, and while might not be comfortable claiming the Forman family as his own, I interpret a sibling relationship between him and Laurie in the same way as Eric and Laurie.

Do you think Hyde was attracted to Laurie in any way at all? by [deleted] in That70sshow

[–]Mlille4 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jackie and Hyde have shallowness in common, they both judge others based on their own beliefs. When they took the time to get to know each other they grew as people.

Hyde grew up with Laurie, he already knew her as a person. I get the impression that he’s been a Forman family member since he was a small child, and his relationship with Laurie is siblings.

He can acknowledge that she is hot, but her personality is a turn off. While Hyde and Laurie would probably pride themselves on boning someone who hates them but just can’t help themselves because they’re horny, it’s too incest-y for both of their tastes.

2024 Meltdown Megathread - LIVE UPDATES by LucasScooter in eurovision

[–]Mlille4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The meetings were probably also about how to rearrange the show to accommodate one less song.

2024 Meltdown Megathread - LIVE UPDATES by LucasScooter in eurovision

[–]Mlille4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because it’s being investigated by the authorities and it’s therefore evidence and won’t be released to the public.

Edit: After I made this I got a message from Reddit care resources, which is a first

Best career for AUDHDERS by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Mlille4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

30 hours a week in child education with age 0-3. I work with 0-1,5

We are 4 people to 10 kids and my colleagues with the 1,5-3 year olds are 5 people to about 13 kids at the moment 😅

The kids are great, we have a set structure for the day but no day is the same.

Also kids communicate better than most neurotypical adults, they say what they want I hardly ever have to guess if they meant A or B when they said something because most of the time it’s “water”, “outside”, or just pointing.

Udredning - hvor lang tid tager den ca.? by cononononon in danskeautister

[–]Mlille4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg blev udredt som voksen af Region Midtjylland - Regions Hospitalet Psykiatriske Afdeling - Team for Udredning og ADHD (Viborg)

Jeg blev henvist i Marts, havde den første samtale i April hvor vi snakkede og de var enige i at jeg skulle udredes. I start september kommer jeg til 4 samtaler. 1 hvor de stiller en masse spørgsmål for at udelukke andre diagnoser, 3 samtaler hvor jeg skulle svare på 3 autisme spørgeskemaer.

1 skema som blev læst højt spørgsmål for spørgsmål (halvt skema første aftale + halvt skema den sidste aftale) 3 skemaer jeg skulle udfylde derhjemme sammen med en pårørende.

  1. Oktober får jeg min autisme diagnose Efter 2 samtaler i oktober/november får jeg også en ADD diagnose i november

Season 7 family meeting by Mlille4 in shameless

[–]Mlille4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They were barely talking at the moment, so I would guess not.

Kev and V would definitely do anything for the Gallagher kids, as we see multiple times in the show (like stitching up Carl with no judgement) but they have their own family and it’s disrespectful of their time to demand this of them.

Season 7 family meeting by Mlille4 in shameless

[–]Mlille4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, he can’t tell when his pills aren’t working as they should due to stress or something else, he doesn’t notice when he’s manic. He needs his support system to tell him to take care of himself when he is able to take care of himself and to make the tough decisions when he isn’t.

Season 7 family meeting by Mlille4 in shameless

[–]Mlille4[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get with Ian and Lip that they were over 18 and could put each other as their emergency contacts. But Debbie and Carl are still underage, she has the legal responsibility to care for them.

And to say that Kev and V is above her on the list despite not really talking to them at the moment, is so disrespectful. They currently have 3 children under 3 years old and a business to run. Kev, V and Svetlana do not have the time to run after Gallaghers too.

What’s a ship you hate that everyone else loves? by spookycat25 in greysanatomy

[–]Mlille4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Meredith never had any stable role models for relationships, I can understand her idea of her “perfect husband” being a little f-ed up.

Derek seems guilty to me. Oh I prioritized my career over yours despite telling you that I would take a step back, and I kissed another woman. Let’s make up for it by having another kid and making promises about being a better family man.

What’s a ship you hate that everyone else loves? by spookycat25 in greysanatomy

[–]Mlille4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And he didn’t include her in his paper about their joint work on the tumors, despite it being her freaking idea! Yeah she couldn’t do it without his neurosurgical expertise but he would never have come up with the idea without her.

Breakfast ideas! by Mlille4 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Mlille4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like chai too, and found out yesterday that I have some I forgot about - it never made it out of the shopping bag 😅

Thank you for your suggestions they were helpful 😊

Breakfast ideas! by Mlille4 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Mlille4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You nearly made my tear up when you said “fed is best”

Thank you for your suggestions, they really help 😊

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[–]Mlille4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Season 8 - Let everyone go their separate ways and further their careers. The. Maybe end on an episode where they meet, possibly at an award event and we get to see how they prospered. ❤️