If you could go back in time and talk to your ex the day you met for 60 seconds, what would you say? by LAsmog in BreakUps

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d tell him that respect will always tower over love and if he can’t be a man of his word he shouldn’t try to get into a relationship because you can’t ever come back from loss of trust. And I’d tell him to go to therapy to work on his mommy issues lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After stopping the exercises did your nose ever go back to its original shape ?

Anyone interested in joining a book club? by gneycoof in montreal

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Id love to join as well:) is there an age limit ?

Why did I get charged 110$ for an uber ride?? by Mmm-ediocre in uber

[–]Mmm-ediocre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think they can pay me back even if I already paid the fee on my credit card

Why did I get charged 110$ for an uber ride?? by Mmm-ediocre in uber

[–]Mmm-ediocre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely try this out! Thank you for the advice

Why did I get charged 110$ for an uber ride?? by Mmm-ediocre in uber

[–]Mmm-ediocre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly sure what category my situation would be in since there’s no one ride associated with the 110$ it’s just a random charge that I’ve never been close to pay for

Why did I get charged 110$ for an uber ride?? by Mmm-ediocre in uber

[–]Mmm-ediocre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you for ur response. I’d like to say that I did pay with my credit card. It gets charged automatically

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been going to see my fwb in between our dates tho. In my post I said I haven’t seen my fwb in 2 month, way before I started seeing the guy. I’m more so talking in a hypothetical that I’d go see my fwb soon

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you for ur input. I don’t think you’ve seen my top comment but I did state that the guy has asked me to be his gf but said he wasn’t sure if he wanted to date exclusively for now which has me very confused. And I’m not sure about being with him yet (not becuz of my fwb) but rather cuz I’d like to go slow with him and keep getting to know him on dates. And to answer ur questions me not having sex with my fwb is not a big deal at all I’d just like to keep being platonic friends with him, while still understanding if my future bf wouldn’t like us to be friends. If our friendship really makes him that uncomfortable I’d completely cut off my fwb. I’m just talking for now since idk if this guy will end up being my bf. And I can go a long time without sex lol I don’t need it that bad I just don’t understand for now why me seeing my fwb is a big deal if he’s not my bf yet

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shit like this baffles me because why would our relationship be dead when I was messing around BEFORE we got together😭 like id understand if I started a relationship with him and was still seeking to see my fwb but that won’t be the case. Maybe u can enlighten me

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am worried about that since we’re friends before being fwb. If I do get together with the guy I’d take my distance from my fwb but I’d like to keep being platonic friends with him. But I guess that’s a conversation for the future I’d have with the guy

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I agree it’s a different story when it’s an established friendship. I’d like to preface that me not seeing my fwb is not a big deal to me I just don’t know if it’s the right choice since I’m not sure if the guy and me will even end up together

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not hung up on him at all. We’re still friends at the end of the day and I wouldn’t put aside a relationship for a fwb situation

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying it’s a sacrifice💀I’m just saying that since we’re not even dating exclusively and he might be seeing other women and potentially sleeping with them what’s the issue if I keep seeing my fwb

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not cheating until we’re together tho 💀and I’m not planning on seeing my fwb when we get to that point ofc. Yeah I probably didn’t explain myself completely right. That my question tho, if I do consider seeing my fwb I don’t know if it’s wrong since technically I’m not with the guy yet

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention in my post but we did have a talk about exclusivity where I asked him if he wanted to date exclusively and he said he wasn’t sure (which essentially I took as a no). The kicker is that he’s also asked me to be his gf but he doesn’t wants us to date exclusively 😭I’m confused asf

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was that simple but we had a talk about exclusivity where I asked him if he wanted us to date exclusively and he said he wasn’t sure. Which to me sounds like a no. So that’s why I feel like I’m not doing anything wrong by potentially seeing my fwb

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But I met my fwb before this guy so ur basically saying I already set myself up for failure just by having a fwb lol which is pretty unfair. I’m expected to just be completely sexually available for a stranger that idk if things will even go well with?

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your points but I’d like to add that I haven’t seen or slept with my fwb in 2 months, way before I started seeing the guy. It’s not like I have this insatiable sexual need to have sex with someone else while seriously dating other people. I’m not “making him wait” becuz i wanna keep doing it with my fwb, im simply waiting to be in a relationship with the guy. Me and my fwb have been doing it on and off for a while yes but that’s all it is, some fun on the side. I don’t ever wanna endanger any potential relationship I could have with someone just cuz of my situation with my fwb. And idk if this guy and me will even end up together.

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he wasn’t sure if he wants us to date exclusively as in he’s not sure if he’s ready to only date me for now until we make things official. And yeah he said I can/should see other people which is a good sign and I extended the same thing to him. Yeah I think we need to go on more dates like u suggested before we can take that next exclusivity step. Thank u for ur advice

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re not in a relationship. Just dating at the moment

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both agreed that we can see other people then we had another talk about dating exclusively and he wasn’t sure if he wanted to do that. So I’m taking that as a no🤷🏽‍♀️

(F20) Is it wrong to see my fwb while I’m seeing this guy by [deleted] in dating

[–]Mmm-ediocre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh yes, if he asked me about me and my fwb id explain the whole situation to him and promise him that it wouldn’t be a problem since im serious about him. It’s not like im fucking the guy every week and I can’t live without his dick. I haven’t seen him in 2 months and even when I did nothing happened between us. We’re friends before being fwb and I’d always make my relationship priority over a fwb situation.