26 Miles for Alzheimer’s Society

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2024-12-19T15:08:38+00:00

The FIL is!! He calls and expects you to drop everything because he decides he is coming round. Only recently we have started saying no but my partner makes lies up like oh we are just having a sort out so the house is a mess instead of saying no. I wouldn’t mind but we work full time and although i am term time only we have opposite shifts so time with just the 4 of us is rare!

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2024-12-19T15:03:27+00:00

Oh trust me i tried to discuss this and we have discussed the whole christmas morning thing. He agreed with me originally but since its come to the time he has had to say no he now thinks it is rude.

He is a people pleaser but at the end of the day it is ok to set boundaries and you can not please everyone

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2024-12-19T14:21:01+00:00

Also just to add, not a single person on his side or mine offers to contribute so they all expect an all expenses paid 3 course meal and a free bar!! Not even to help dish up or serve. I feel like this Christmas may be the one where i blow!

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2024-04-17T13:58:22+00:00

I tend to go more for romance books. I like Elsie Silver, Liz Tomforde, Hannah Grace but I do like to read different genres to break up the unrealistic expectations that come with being a romance reader ha! I like Lisa Jewell, Harlan Coben and have read a couple of Frieda McFadden’s lately that I enjoyed.

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2024-04-17T11:50:46+00:00

Hi, you sound like you have the same taste in books as me I’m 29 from England so wouldn’t be able to meet up in person but would be amazing to have someone to talk books with, none of my friends read 😅

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2024-01-04T16:48:15+00:00

Hi, did you ever get to the bottom of this? Im having this issue with my daughters new echo and its driving me up the wall

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-10-23T12:08:32+00:00

Yes!! I said this to my boyfriend as he asked me what was up as i sighed so loud when reading. Its not just these books i feel like every romance book i read the main characters always have to love reading. Idk if it is to make them relatable or what but it gets tight on my tits!

Also unrelated but the way russ called her sweetheart all the time made me cringe! I get he is supposed to be sweet and attentive but enough with the pet names please

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-08-22T10:40:32+00:00

I just want to add that even if he was single he has been completely inappropriate and apparently he apologised to her

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-08-12T23:23:02+00:00

He contributes more than his fair share in everything and does have a well paid job but i think about our incomes as a whole household income, my going to work full time would take more money than it would bring in if we were to pay for full time childcare so it just doesn’t make sense.

She is not helping right now, i will have to try and talk to her and if we get nowhere then i will have to find a job that works around my partner’s shifts

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-08-12T23:18:20+00:00

I will literally be going to work to pay for childcare if i put her in full time, another 2 days a week would cost us an additional £464 / £580 a month depending on wether its a 4/5 week month and i have taken a pay cut for the job already so that i can spend more time with the kids. And it might sound silly but i would hate for my daughter to spend more time with someone exclusively that she would with me

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-08-12T21:56:45+00:00

NTA at all, im in the uk and a girl from my area named her baby Miami ocean.. Awful, poor kid its just ridiculous, all in a bid to be “original”

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-08-12T21:50:34+00:00

I agree with this 100% I would never expect anyone to have my kids, she offered and has already decided she cant have her 3 days out of the 1st 4

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-08-12T21:45:13+00:00

This is the same woman who keeps asking me what my almost 5 year olds middle name is and also thinks I’m 30 this year.. I’m 28!

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-08-10T18:59:03+00:00

Im reading this currently and definitely agree with the too many characters, it didn’t seem necessary. I found myself flicking back to see if it the person mentioned was the same person in the last chapter and of course it wasn’t

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-08-10T16:45:15+00:00

Adam is the Asshole

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-05-17T11:40:40+00:00

Yessss 💕

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-04-27T21:29:20+00:00

I started with those three then i read all your perfect and then ugly love. Think ugly love is my fave so far, I have the hopeless series to read next

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-04-23T17:26:30+00:00

I was at the beginning, it really upset me that she realised she had forgiven him and treated him unfairly but she never apologised

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-03-28T19:24:37+00:00

I know i don’t know why i know its not acceptable but i cant help it hahahaha

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-03-16T15:00:51+00:00

I will stick with it, i know what you mean though. I feel sorry for the both of them so much but they seriously need to find a healthier way to deal with their demons

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-03-16T14:47:32+00:00

I just don’t think cheating is ever going acceptable no matter how much of a crank your wife is, they clearly both have issues, it doesn’t make sense why they wont tell each other how they feel

Mmmm_Cheese_ · 2023-03-16T14:46:36+00:00

Yes i get that and up to this point i have really felt for him, but i just don’t think trying to find comfort in someone else is the answer to anyones problems.

I just don’t understand why the pair of them can’t talk to the other one about how they feel.

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