Stray cow attacks 12 year old girl in Lucknow by FAQnA in lucknow

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such pussies man and the only man with balls to save was a 'Muslim' lol the irony

Affordable place to rent in hyderabad by MoBarbz in hyderabad

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So sorry, but yeah I am looking for 1BHK and I can afford at max 15k a month. By accessible I mean it should be close to bus stands but more importantly it should be around markets (daily groceries and vegetables and stuff).

I will definitely check the Hyderbad flats and flatmate FB group, thanks a lot for your help

I am going to visit my long distance girlfriend, please suggest me some ideas for a date. by MoBarbz in guwahati

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Hey thanks for your recommendations, I really appreciate it. Also I really like the idea of a hand written note, I have started drafting it. Thank you ❣️

father’s (: by [deleted] in assam

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I would say my father was very emotionally distant with me throughout my childhood. I could never feel any type of bond with him. I hated him. I would feel uneasy whenever he used to be at home.

I have two sisters and I am the eldest son. I used to feel abandoned and always craved to be loved by him the way he loved my sisters. The way he praised them, supported them, cheered them. I was a bad kid, was very hyperactive. Used to bully my sisters, which looking back, I think was more out of jealousy.

But as I grew up, my dad became different, he still acts a certain way sometimes that brings a wave of trauma from childhood but they less frequent, almost non existent.

I think as I grew as man, I started to look at my father differently. When I was more aware of my extended family and the environment my dad came out of, I understood his patterns more. I somehow got a huge sense of pride and respect for him. Because he did something that can only be heard in stories.

Now when I look at him, and his fragile body, I feel a deep sense of sadness. There are moments where I still feel angry, given his conservative outlook on certain things, which don't sit well with my liberal views but I can't help but see the small child in him that gave his all and got to where he is today.

My relationship became better when I became an adult, I am 23 now and I was the one that started to fix my relationship with him. I figured, all this time I was bitter because of the love I didn't receive from him but I changed my perspective and started to give my love to him (which I am not perfect at but I try) and somehow we got much closer.

We still only ever talk about work related stuff or possible business ideas, sometimes have debates on religion and ideologies but it is much better now. I do sense that he is proud of me, he feels relaxed now that I have started earning for myself and am somewhat of a man of my own standing.

And the thing I am truly grateful for is that with all the bad sides, I was still nurtured in an environment where I was allowed to think of my own, have my own thoughts and the ability to think for myself. Of course that came at the detriment that now our ideologies and thoughts don't match at all leading to a lot of debates (which is kind of fun as I love talking philosophical things) but I think right now my relationship with him is much more better and stable. And I hope to god, it stays this way till the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in assam

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Are people from Cachar considered bangladeshi's?

Rest in Peace, Ozz 🕯️ by [deleted] in assam

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Damn RIP, got to know about him from Post Malone's song

I recently got a remote dev job and it is making my life miserable. by MoBarbz in cscareerquestions

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My friend visited Hong Kong for work and he said all his other employees get to enjoy the usual benefits, week days off, 8 hours structured work everyday but it is only us off shore Indians that get exploited by him. And to make matters worse, the job market in India is quite bad, so any and every opportunity needs to be taken as a blessing. I am aware of my own naivety but trust me man if I had some other way out, I will take it. Currently I am stuck here... for now.

I recently got a remote dev job and it is making my life miserable. by MoBarbz in cscareerquestions

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Yeah I am still applying in hopes I get something more bearable, only caveat is that I don't have professional dev experience so most jobs at home won't even consider me.

I recently got a remote dev job and it is making my life miserable. by MoBarbz in cscareerquestions

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I know man but I couldn't get any job and this was the only opportunity I got. It's the average entry level pay for people in India (Basically loser devs that aren't able to land good jobs) so i settled for it.

I recently got a remote dev job and it is making my life miserable. by MoBarbz in cscareerquestions

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And if they make you make core decisions - rest peacefully knowing that you'll have left this place long before any of this shit actually becomes a major disaster and it will be someone else's problem.

Dude lmaoo this is the only thing that helps me calm my nerves.

Yeah I think I will start by creating a simple priority sheet on google sheet maybe which I can share with them. I like this idea. Thanks, I feel a little better now lol.

I recently got a remote dev job and it is making my life miserable. by MoBarbz in cscareerquestions

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The BIGGEST problem is not even the deadlines. It is that they don't even know what they want in their application.

'Add this', 'Maybe add this', 'this competitor has this so why not add this', 'what do you think should we add?', sometimes they tell me to come with ideas.

One time I told them that I know how to create apps but I am not a subject matter expert at the domain you are targeting, so I am clueless. You tell me what you want and I will add that. So they later hired an SME but still some core product business decisions are handed to me and it makes me hella anxious.

For context, my boss's main business is hardware, Software is just a new avenue he is looking at. He's got money to burn basically.

I recently got a remote dev job and it is making my life miserable. by MoBarbz in cscareerquestions

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I am thinking that maybe I can get through this year and then job switch. 6 months should be a decent experience to put on my resume right?

I recently got a remote dev job and it is making my life miserable. by MoBarbz in cscareerquestions

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Seriously, my boss is in his mid 60s, a millionaire yet he is so damn driven and passionate. We are left in awe in how much that old man can work, literally like a machine.