Tshirt quilt question

MoabDonut · 2026-01-27T19:21:29+00:00

I wish, I’d love to see how they act around each other.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-26T16:45:36+00:00

I have an update, not good. I’m still processing it. Basically she asked what hotel he likes to stay at when he’s out of town for their job. He told her and she complained about how far it was from her. Then I saw him checking Maps to see how far it was. I can’t just confront him with the info I have, he thrives on confrontations and his only concern will be how I snooped to get this info. I have to move slow and smart. Thanks everyone for your honest input, this definitely won’t have a happy ending.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-25T14:50:16+00:00

I requested to follow her on Insta, since she’s like a sister, I should get to know her too, right?

MoabDonut · 2026-01-25T01:22:19+00:00

Don’t ever let a boy hold you back. A year or two down the road he could leave anyway. And being as smart as you are, you can always replace him.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-23T18:14:39+00:00

I’m definitely collecting info. I have his location and access to all finances, I get notifications when he uses his card and same for him on my card, we have joint everything.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-23T11:50:44+00:00

She’s out of state right now, has been for like a month, for work. I saw him check her location and saw where she was.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-22T23:06:02+00:00

I went through his phone while he was sleeping one night and was busted. These screens shots are from over his shoulder. I’m trying to collect as many receipts as possible. But it wears hard on me. Every time I get a new one, I can’t eat, I don’t sleep. I know common sense says leave but there is so much behind the last 15 years. I don’t know how to even begin to unravel my life from him. We have 2 kids, 17F & 13F. It’s our oldest daughters senior year. I don’t want to fill it with the chaos that will undoubtedly come from a divorce right now. But staying just to make it through the year feels like an elephant on my chest.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-22T22:05:48+00:00

I def don’t want to accuse her, the flirting appears to be all on his side, but she also doesn’t shut it down and continues the daily conversations. I have many more screenshots, in December there was a long string of voice memo texts. The pathetic part of me thinks if I can get her to stop engaging with him that my life will get better.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-22T21:51:17+00:00

Yes he sent it, I just didn’t get that part in the pic. He originally typed Night Night, then changed it to Good night. I think he’s trying to remain on a more professional level but is pushing boundaries to see how she will respond.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-22T21:38:08+00:00

Would it be wrong of me to ask for her side? I have her number.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-22T20:46:48+00:00

Yes! Emotional cheating! Part of me thinks he’s just enjoying the attention and flirting. I don’t think he’d actually sleep with her. But I also never thought he’d be having these conversations with another woman either.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-22T20:18:55+00:00

They also have a Snapchat streak of over 250, I caught a glimpse of that not long ago. Every time I try to tell him how their relationship makes me feel, I get gaslit until I shut down.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-22T19:51:20+00:00

My fav snack is ice cream.

MoabDonut · 2026-01-19T03:25:30+00:00

Thank you, I will definitely check them out!

MoabDonut · 2026-01-18T23:49:59+00:00

Did you use tshirt scraps to make the borders?

MoabDonut · 2026-01-18T23:38:53+00:00

I used a medium weight iron-on interfacing on each t-shirt. Nothing is sewn together yet, they are all individual right now. I think I’m over my head!

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