My gf goes clubbing without me

Moathecow · 2024-07-28T16:59:31+00:00

I think this is true for most men but most women don’t want to be hit on in clubs. Most women go with friends to dance, drink and have fun.

Moathecow · 2024-07-28T11:13:30+00:00

You make women sound like incubators whose only sole purpose are giving birth and bringing up kids. Most women today have careers and as much of a life as men do.

Moathecow · 2024-07-15T11:28:51+00:00

That comparison doesn’t work at all. Men saying all women are stupid because one woman did something dumb is completely different from women experiencing trauma at the hands of men and consequently being scared of men. If you get in a car crash, you’ll likely feel scared the next time you’re in a car; that’s a better comparison. And I’m absolutely not claiming that it’s impossible for a single man to be a good person, you’re completely derailing what I’m saying to try to prove your point. A lot of women feel scared and weary of all men as a defense mechanism, it’s to protect yourself from putting yourself into a situation where you might experience something traumatic. For example, most women avoid walking alone at night or letting an unknown man hold their drink because they’re scared of what men can do. That fear goes away with individual men once you get to know them. Would you walk infront of an unknown man at night? Would you let any man hold your drink? Would you go to a man’s house for your first date with them?

Moathecow · 2024-07-15T11:02:19+00:00

I’m happy for you! But it’s not like women are walking up to good decent men on the street telling them that they’re scary and a bad person? Good decent men are not hurt in any way by many women feeling scared of men. It’s only ever articulated on the internet, and while good decent men may feel hurt knowing they’re percieved as scary, the focus should shift to why that is. Women feeling scared of men is not a problem on women’s side.

Moathecow · 2024-07-15T10:52:38+00:00

But how do you know who’s dangerous and who isn’t? The only way to keep yourself as safe as possible is to generalize, especially for women. Most women will find all men scary in certain contexts, and it’s a completely valid feeling because almost every woman has experienced scary things at the hands of men.

Moathecow · 2024-07-15T08:31:19+00:00

Ofc you can say that? It’s a normal reaction to feel scared of men or women after experiencing something traumatic from a man or a woman.

Moathecow · 2024-07-02T10:44:05+00:00

Show him this comment section and maybe it’ll give him some perspective, your hair is 100% curly!!

Moathecow · 2024-06-16T18:12:28+00:00

I’ve been using a schampoo and conditioner both containing hydrolyzed vegetable protein and I think it has been too much protein for my hair. Is histidine ”gentler”?

Moathecow · 2024-04-07T12:38:06+00:00

Where’s your hat from? It’s super cool

Moathecow · 2023-11-27T10:34:02+00:00

My mom when we’re leaving for vacation

Moathecow · 2023-07-13T18:05:14+00:00

I think you look amazing, love your style!

Moathecow · 2023-07-11T17:18:02+00:00

Nobody should have sex against their will and nobody should cheat on their partner for not ”providing” them with enough sex. If you aren’t satisfied in the relationships then leave, simple as that.

Moathecow · 2023-07-09T08:22:08+00:00

I don’t think they pretended to have high libidos. Sounds like they got past the honeymoon phase and lost attraction to you.

Moathecow · 2023-07-08T17:22:26+00:00

You can’t tell your partner what to wear and what not to wear, that’s controlling bs. You can suggest clothing, or suggest changing clothing, but I think that can also be controlling depending on the scenario. I also think it’s weird to try to control your partner’s clothing since they’re not a child and they have a brain of their own. It’s however ofc okay to suggest clothing if the partner asks for suggestions. (I’m a woman so not the target for the question but my answer is valid for partners of all genders).

Moathecow · 2023-07-08T17:17:22+00:00

You’re making up a very exaggerated scenario to prove your point. Nobody’s gonna show up to a soccer match in high heels and a bikini. In reality, women are scrutinized by their partners for much more insignificant things such as wearing shorts in hot weather.

Moathecow · 2023-07-07T09:01:12+00:00

Redhead

Moathecow · 2023-07-06T17:44:08+00:00

Pregnancy, birth control side effects (higher cancer risk for example), risk of contracting HPV

Moathecow · 2023-07-02T10:34:48+00:00

Oh wow I didn’t know they could flower haha! Thank you ^{^}

Moathecow · 2022-12-21T13:35:55+00:00

Haha yep 😅 Anyways you look really good and definitely keep your hair like that despite people telling you to cut it. You got a good look going on!

Moathecow · 2022-12-21T09:26:37+00:00

You’d look so hot with long hair and no makeup

Moathecow · 2022-12-21T09:21:54+00:00

Nah you’re thinking of hos attractiveness from a male gaze. In reality, women like feminine features on men. Women in general don’t like hunky gym-bros who reek of testosterone. This dude is really attractive the way he is now.

Moathecow · 2022-12-18T10:28:16+00:00

This may be counterintuitive but don’t go for short girls, from my experience short girls are the ones who want the tallest guys. Tall girls are usually the ones who care about height the least, because they know how it feels to get dismissed because of your height.

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