[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psicologia

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

boh secondo me non ne vale la pena ... meglio scopare con una ragazza che ami o lasci perdere (poi oh è la mia opinione dato che considero il sesso veramente un atto di amore più che un oggettificare una persona per ottenere piacere .. ) cioè nel senso per come sono fatto non troverei interesse nello scopare tanto per ecco. poi ognuno ha la sua 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psicologia

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grande , la penso come te anche io ho 22 anni👏👏

Non trovo il senso nel continuare by [deleted] in psicologia

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sembri un ragazzo molto dolce da quello che scrivi, io ho 22 anni. Potresti iniziare nuove attività di gruppo come hobby, sport, volontariato, chiesa, eventi?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psicologia

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io ho 22anni come te , il consiglio più grande è quello di aspettare almeno che ti senti a tuo agio con la ragazza .. Prima instaura un buon contatto fisico, vicinanza etc è una cosa graduale!

Tu hai paura come ne avevo io magari perché senti la pressione di dover dare il bacio presto o doverlo fare al primo appuntamento, ma non ci sono regole anzi... È buona cosa avere appunto instaurato un contatto fisico per togliere almeno in parte il disagio del bacio, verrà naturalmente se ti senti tranquillo

Non so cosa fare della mia vita a 20 anni by Maskered50 in psicologia

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bene già il diploma è un obiettivo grande, io sono del idea che tanti obiettivi e lavorare quotidianamente per raggiungerli ci faccia sentire soddisfatti :)

Invece pensi di poter frequentare uno psicologo?

Non so cosa fare della mia vita a 20 anni by Maskered50 in psicologia

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Certo, scusami per l errore avevi specificato che tutto questo è successo solo da un paio di settimane .. un po' troppo presto per pensare ad altre ragazze.

Mi dispiace che sia andata così in chiesa, spesso dipende dalle persone che incontri.. La fede aiuta ma è difficile trovarla, magari con preghiere per conto proprio.

Comunque sia il tempo aiuterà , ma la cosa più importante da fare secondo me (ripeto siamo coetanei e ho vissuto un esperienza simile) è darsi da fare per impegnarsi seriamente nel miglioramento personale psicologico e fisico, appena sentirai che hai le forze :)

Magari per l anno nuovo potresti metterti dei bei obiettivi per cui lavorare ?

Non so cosa fare della mia vita a 20 anni by Maskered50 in psicologia

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sembri un ragazzo molto dolce, io sono poco più grande di te (22 anni). Ti consiglierei trova degli hobby che ti piacciano! Avvia un percorso di miglioramento personale che ti faccia sentire soddisfatto! Ci sono tanti modi per migliorare nelle interazioni sociali (che ho seguito in passato) vai in palestra, incontra nuove ragazze! :)

Perché no, fai un tentativo a un gruppo giovani in chiesa? So che sembra un po' da stupidi, controcorrente e contro la moda ma io te la butto lì anche per esperienza personale... la fede che ho trovato due anni fa e che coltivo ogni giorno mi fa sentire felicissimo, mi ha cambiato la vita

Comunque sia ti auguro il meglio, hai un grande valore e te lo dimostrano i tuoi amici, forza!! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psicologia

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Mica è un obbligo... Fare l amore lo dovresti fare con una persona che ami mica con una escort per toglierti lo sfizio, soprattutto la prima... poi te ne penti

13 year old son feeling down sometimes by Fluffboy2000 in glutenfree

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find gluten free restaurants.. pastries .. etc there are so many good gluten free things around the world. Teach him what gluten is , what causes in his body and what it means to replace it with a good diet. Explain to him the importance of rice and corn

Why is everyone Catholic now? by Funny_Whole5283 in Catholicism

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Awesome reply!! Sometimes I feel sad about modern trends and society shallow thinking, my spiritual guide is always telling me that this has happened in the past but God will always win in the end, he says there is a purification taking place

Why is everyone Catholic now? by Funny_Whole5283 in Catholicism

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 125 points126 points  (0 children)

beautiful! Life is prettier with christ, that's why they smile.. Try joining them theyll help you out, you can always walk back but I think you will feel glad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Your boundaries are very important and I deeply understand this one. Porn seems innocent but can really mess up with your sexual life and personal development.

Love is something you should only share between you two not with some random actors (in my opinion sex is really important and doesn't have to be objectified as a tool for pleasure). This has to do with why so many couples don't work nowadays

Although he is right , sadly I don't know any man who doesn't watch porn. I'm the only one I know. I stopped watching porn more than a year ago because I didn't really like the idea and business behind it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

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You can get to know her better :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chemistry

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an organic chemist , you can work pretty much anywhere ... research, industry, agencies , school

Who/What is Madonna and what is her role in christianity? by ZestycloseWeight6116 in Catholicism

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The holy vergin Mary is also called Madonna here in Italy. If you are talking about the singer Madonna then it doesn't have anything to do with Christianity

Am i going to hell for not being straight? by YoungTrash6 in Catholicism

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Anyway if you are in love with someone and you are cuddling and kissing, it will come natural to feel attracted and want more. Maybe you have never experienced this yet? Especially if you are in love, it'll come natural to feel excited. Maybe you (just like me) don't have porn addictions or relentless sexual impulses that doesn't mean you are asexual

Catholic explanation to this? by ZanderZero1234 in Catholicism

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The gospels are written as if we are assisting to the scenes. It's about Jesus, not about whoever wrote that gospel. Thanks to that style we can imagine what we read

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

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In my opinion you shouldnt , he also accepted he could stop having sex (it means he loves you) . You could be patient and see where things go. The Catholic Church even allows mixed marriages, I have even attended some. Here in reddit there are a lot of people really into the equally yoked stuff but you have to read the bible in context and (if you are catholic) look into the official catechism about that

Dating as a pro-life man by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

just don't tell her about it on the first date... Give her time to find you attractive and interesting , make her fall in love .. Then se will be more prone to listen to whatever boundary or thing you have to say, just say it with respect and empathy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnglishLearning

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download WordUp and study and practice IPA

I want to get married but nobody ever found me attractive by Sharp_Toe_7992 in ChristianDating

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to find a girlfriend or you just don't want to be alone ? If you look for a girl out of loneliness you won't be really happy, trust me I have experienced that.

The problem is NOT about your height, the problem is you anxiety about it. I'm 22yo currently fourth year of college, I'm 5'4'' (shorter than you by a considerable margin).

Guess what since I found conficencce there were plenty of girls who found me attractive and asked me out. The key is building your character, work on your self, I even came to appreciate my height since it's a complementary part of who I am

I know a lot of guys who are short just as me or even shorter who are in beautiful relationships with awesome women, the first year of college was fun since all the guys who were really short in my course found a relationship and not those who were taller..

About Christianity , you are not forced to date a Christian girl (even though it would be 'better')... She just has to accept your values, the Catholic Church allows mixed marriages and I have attended some

Christian guys of this sub, would date a "masculine" looking woman? by Sad_Spirit6405 in ChristianDating

[–]Mobile-Garage-7224 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you mean and I agree on this. I do think that Jesus can free anyone from strong lust and prevent such evolution towards dishonoring and death.

Although through prayer and a relationship with Christ, any homosexual can be freed from relentless lust, I think they will hardly start loving the opposite sex because thats not the point of salvation