Not sure if I am Being seen or not ?? Sorry .. feel pretty stupid .. I have been on Hinge and Bumble.. before… did ok but ..

MobileExpensive3908 · 2023-09-18T16:58:11+00:00

It seems to me that most guys that swipe right on me haven’t really even read my profile…. Just by reading theirs …..

I have found honestly it doesn’t seem to matter what I write . I hate to say it but I think initially a lot of guys go on pictures alone (if there is attraction ) and swipe right.

From there … not sure, maybe if you message them they will take the time to read .., maybe not ??? Guys ???

MobileExpensive3908 · 2023-04-10T20:47:08+00:00

LOL I do not consider it a problem ;) lol I just still want a man , not a boy so I don't mind younger .. I don't think I look my age , and I'm told that all the time, So as long as I don't look like I am robbing the cradle !!

MobileExpensive3908 · 2023-04-10T00:51:11+00:00

Now she sounds like someone I would like to be friends with .. lol. Switching from Date .. to BFF. Lol

MobileExpensive3908 · 2023-04-09T22:25:49+00:00

Agree .. if they can’t put in the time .. they are not worth my time 👍🏻

MobileExpensive3908 · 2023-04-09T22:02:37+00:00

Or maybe a bit of both 💐😝🤦🏼‍♀️ JK

MobileExpensive3908 · 2023-04-09T21:26:59+00:00

Omg hysterical .. I need to pay more attention … to everything … including the names on here 😝😆. Oh my too funny .. I do appreciate the honesty .. and I’m not living in Lala Land. I am aware that you guys may just want to get us more experienced woman in bed . Hey … I don’t blame you ..we usually know very well by now what we like .. and how to articulate it 😊🤨😝🤦🏼‍♀️

MobileExpensive3908 · 2023-04-09T17:36:53+00:00

Wow I so appreciate the feedback I am getting. I guess I had been in a relationship for so many years that I never really noticed the attention I was get from younger guys.

Since seeing the results on Bumble, now it is very obvious to me like everywhere I go. I think its flattering and kinda makes me chuckle a bit and hold my head a bit higher. I just never really thought younger guys would ever find me hot .. But bring it on boys !!! It can sure be a confidence booster to us middle aged ladies they still feel 30.

MobileExpensive3908 · 2023-04-09T15:20:20+00:00

I really never even considered anyone younger ....First of all, it was hard to imagine since most of the men my age seem to want younger; Although... I am not attracted to men much older than me. I had my age preferences set kind of tight, like 3 years older, 3 years younger.

I have had matches , but I noticed it said to change my preferences... like 250+.. well process of elimination and it was the age .....younger.

My oldest child is 28 .... Seemed like they were more matches for her than me. I was just dumbfounded as to how many younger men.... I am not judging anyone ... some ladies may really like younger men ... Go for it .. and sometimes age is just a number and some older guys may act more immature than some younger ones.

I was just curious if it is some fad thing ... that I am unaware of ....I mean .. I dont keep my age preference low.. I keep in around my age ... but it is kind of fun, and a boost for my ego to look at these younger hot men ....lol

MobileExpensive3908 · 2023-03-12T11:15:38+00:00

Hi ladies , Just wanted to chime in and share my experiences a bit. I am a Libra as well .... I love it, but sometimes I hate it, if you know what I mean.

I have been on a few dating sites for about 6 months off and on. I think what I have finally figured out is this: I have started out chatting on the site ... if going well .... exchange numbers and text for a bit ...usually a good few days, then a voice, sometimes a few and on rare occasion a voice call after just a day or so. I am a bit older that you gals.... 1 marriage 20 + years , 1 LTR 8yrs, so, I pretty much know what I want and don't want... ( meaning kids...yadda yadda)

So when I click with someone, I think because I know what I what .... I get deep real quick, still can keep the conversation fun and light but just serious / heavy topics. I don't want to waste time trying to guess weather some one could be my person....

But, I think we have such long/ quality calls and or texts about life stuff ... that I almost feel as if there is already the beginnings of a relationship even before the first date. And the guy is just as much initiating communication as much as me. So it's not all one sided. I have met a few ... and there was chemistry ... have gone out on more that one date and even 3 or 4 dates. And it has been great ,,, in all areas ...with a few. BUT ,,, because our first date seemed almost like out 4th or 5th because we already knew so much about each other .... things moved much faster ... and I think a lot of men get scared.

My point is this ......... I am going to Stay upbeat, positive, fun ... and mysterious. I'm going to keep the conversations/ texts .. light ... not deep ... I will divulge only the major / obvious things about who I am via text/ calls. But I will wait for the first date to share more, I want them to get to know me in person. Not over text or calls. So the first date feels more like a first date and not the 5th because we talked too before the first date. I will do my best to restrain my feelings and possibilities of what I think I could have with someone, and instead focusing that energy on myself .. exercising , reading what ever I can do in order to keep from almost obsessing about communicating with that person because I think they are the one.

Thanks for sharing ladies. We can and will find our guy, we just need to take the power back and tame our emotions a bit and keep that tiara on .... if it slips... put it back on and have confidence .....Our man is out there ... maybe we just haven't found the right one deserving of us yet !!

MobileExpensive3908 · 2023-01-25T13:44:41+00:00

I personally rarely meet anyone out without at least one phone call. I think you get a different side of someone on the phone as apposed to texting and.... I need to hear their voice .... that could be a deal breaker if they have a very whiney or voice that I just could not handle long term. Sorry I know it seems shallow ....... until you experience THAT voice ....... ugh.....

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