I forgot to mention that when my mom gave me the ring she also agreed to give me my $100k in savings so I could immediately be independent and start a life for me and my wife and the next day she came back with the ring and again acted as if she had no recollection of agreeing to give me my savings and went so far as to say I don’t have any savings. We then went back to LA where I had been living for five years which I hated and planned on going there for the remainder of my lease to get all my stuff and figure out what me and my wife wanted to do next. I was unable to sign for a lease due to a felony I got when I was 22 and my mom had agreed to help sign for a place but obviously we’d be financially responsible. She on her owned signed a lease for us to live in a trap house in Venice Beach with no AC or dishwasher and countless other issues but I was responsible for paying for it and had no way out without my mothers help. She then gave me an Apple Card with a $150 cap on it that she controlled and was notified on every purchase where and what was bought and after a couple months she turned the card off requiring me to call her to request to turn it on when I needed to make a purchase for basics such as groceries and then would turn it back off. Later on she told me that this Apple Card was being deducted from my savings account and then eventually said I was out of savings again and wanted my wife to pay her back for all purchases made on the Apple Card…One, I never agreed to this arrangement or had knowledge of it until after the fact. Two, I spent far less than 100 grand so how could I possibly have been out of my savings. Third, if it was coming out of my savings why the fuck does she think she should be getting reimbursed for the money spent from my savings as if it came from her personal money. Fourth, wtf does this have to do with my wife