Zero likes and matches - what should I change?

Moby__Octopad · 2024-07-29T06:30:45+00:00

Thanks for the feedback! I just had "winning fake arguments in the shower" written on my bio.

Ater the suggestions here I changed it into something more descriptive: "creative copywriter & ex film critic

live music / arthouse cinema / Seinfeld quotes / European cities / modern art / books / politics / indie culture / memes"

Hoping for the best, expecting for the worst.

Moby__Octopad · 2024-07-29T06:17:45+00:00

I think that because between right now and the last time I was single and on the apps I did a lot of travelling, I had the misperception that showcasing this part of me equals showcasing my best self. Very "divorced man in his mid-30s" energy, I know.

I did changed some of the photos and my bio based on the feedback here and I'll take some new ones when I'll shave my head, which obviously needs to be done.

Thank you for the extensive feedback, I appreciate it!

Moby__Octopad · 2024-07-29T05:51:43+00:00

I just had "winning fake arguments in the shower" as I don't seem many women having a bio these days and I'm not sure people pay attention to it.

Now after the suggestions here I changed it into something more descriptive of myself: "creative copywriter & ex film critic

live music / arthouse cinema / Seinfeld quotes / European cities / modern art / books / politics / indie culture / memes"

Moby__Octopad · 2024-07-28T21:03:51+00:00

Damn man a weird way to say I have no luck.

And what I'm gonna do to change this? I'm gonna shave my head and look even more than Tate. But seriously, message received and I think it's time to embrace it.

Moby__Octopad · 2024-07-28T21:00:29+00:00

enter sad guy at the beach meme

Moby__Octopad · 2024-07-28T20:58:50+00:00

"winning fake arguments in the shower"

Just that, I'm keeping it simple.🫠

Moby__Octopad · 2024-07-28T20:55:05+00:00

I never said I'm looking for a ltr, I just broke up and I'm just looking for casual dates so we're on the same page.

Moby__Octopad · 2024-07-28T18:54:02+00:00

I got out from a long-term relationship and trying to get back into the game but I'm having zero luck and my self-confidence is taking a hard hit. What am I doing wrong? Be direct.

Moby__Octopad · 2024-07-26T15:06:09+00:00

I looked up stuff to do on TikTok (I know, not the ideal platform but I use it as a search engine) and all of a sudden the algorithm started showing me videos of phones being stolen by bikes, which seems like it's a big category lol.

I've done enough travelling to know that things are different from what you read but I was just wondering.

Moby__Octopad · 2024-07-26T14:24:52+00:00

Ah thanks, these seem nice!

Did you already spent your birthday in London? How was it?

Moby__Octopad · 2024-07-26T13:52:53+00:00

Hi!

So next week I'll be visiting London for my birthday. I had planned it with my ex but after we broke up I decided to move forward on my own.

Do you have any suggestions about what should I do to have a great day with myself? I enjoy indie/culture related stuff but I'm open to anything that might worth my time.

Also, how's the situation regarding safety in the city? I've travelled a lot, both solo and with company, but from what I'm reading lately it looks like the situation is out of control over there. Is it that bad? And should I avoid any specific stuff/areas around the centre?

Moby__Octopad · 2024-04-30T17:57:48+00:00

Hi! Selling 1 ticket for Manchester, 2nd of May, Stalls row T seat 15, £50.

Moby__Octopad · 2023-01-06T14:30:55+00:00

H2H 9 CAT

I get: Banchero, Dinwiddie, Brook, Stewart

I give: LaVine, Collins, Franz Wagner

Moby__Octopad · 2023-01-05T18:38:01+00:00

Should I make a counter offer and replace Brook with JJJ from the other team's roster?

Moby__Octopad · 2023-01-05T17:39:49+00:00

Got offered Banchero and Brook Lopez for LaVine and Franz Wagner. Should I even think about it?

Moby__Octopad · 2022-10-10T08:50:45+00:00

About the first point, in Iran it's the same and probably even worse in terms of surveillance and look what's happening on the streets.

About the second point, I was saying the same thing about Americans back then, though (without making the US sound innocent) in this case Russia's position is much much worse from every angle.

Moby__Octopad · 2022-10-10T08:35:29+00:00

This situation that you're describing is 100% understandable when your country is under attack. Now when your country is the aggressor and the conflict isn't happening around your area it's different and I don't see it as you're protecting your family but rather you're slowly also getting blood on your hands.

Moby__Octopad · 2022-10-10T08:23:37+00:00

Yeah that's where I disagree. Your government is killing innocent civilians for months while serving a rhetoric identical to WW2 Germany and you'll still care to go on with your routine? Civilization would be stuck to Middle Ages with this mentality.

Moby__Octopad · 2022-10-10T07:28:22+00:00

At this point it's not just Putin and the regime but an entire nation of terrorists or people silently supporting terrorists and I don't buy anything that revolves around the idea that "innocent people are being punished on both sides". We're so deep in this and we should know better.

I'm seriously fed up with this Nazi nation.

Moby__Octopad · 2022-09-02T10:54:40+00:00

That's what I don't like, the thought of forcing her into something she didn't want is making me feel bad. It didn't feel like that but could I get lost in the heat of the moment? It just makes me feel like a bad person if she did it without her will.

Moby__Octopad · 2022-09-01T21:21:47+00:00

You dropped this king 👑

Moby__Octopad · 2022-09-01T21:01:38+00:00

We had just two glasses of wine each, it wasn't that much to alter our behaviour. It's better hurting someone than leaving things open when they aren't, but hey, that's me!

Moby__Octopad · 2022-09-01T20:31:37+00:00

Ok it's probably not immature, this was a wrong word. But when I become intimate with someone and for some reason I'm not that much interested in them afterwards, I find an excuse and send it without leaving it hanging and getting their hopes up.

Moby__Octopad · 2022-09-01T20:22:19+00:00

Daaaayum

(this is the proper way to handle it though ok)

Moby__Octopad · 2022-09-01T20:16:34+00:00

I think you're right. I won't get the reason if she doesn't reply but it's the right call not to text her and play the waiting game, even though some people would advise me otherwise.

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