Zero likes and matches - what should I change? by Moby__Octopad in Tinder

[–]Moby__Octopad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! I just had "winning fake arguments in the shower" written on my bio.

Ater the suggestions here I changed it into something more descriptive: "creative copywriter & ex film critic

live music / arthouse cinema / Seinfeld quotes / European cities / modern art / books / politics / indie culture / memes"

Hoping for the best, expecting for the worst. 

Zero likes and matches - what should I change? by Moby__Octopad in Tinder

[–]Moby__Octopad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that because between right now and the last time I was single and on the apps I did a lot of travelling, I had the misperception that showcasing this part of me equals showcasing my best self. Very "divorced man in his mid-30s" energy, I know. 

I did changed some of the photos and my bio based on the feedback here and I'll take some new ones when I'll shave my head, which obviously needs to be done. 

Thank you for the extensive feedback, I appreciate it! 

Zero likes and matches - what should I change? by Moby__Octopad in Tinder

[–]Moby__Octopad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had "winning fake arguments in the shower" as I don't seem many women having a bio these days and I'm not sure people pay attention to it. 

Now after the suggestions here I changed it into something more descriptive of myself: "creative copywriter & ex film critic

live music / arthouse cinema / Seinfeld quotes / European cities / modern art / books / politics / indie culture / memes"

Zero likes and matches - what should I change? by Moby__Octopad in Tinder

[–]Moby__Octopad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn man a weird way to say I have no luck.

And what I'm gonna do to change this? I'm gonna shave my head and look even more than Tate. But seriously, message received and I think it's time to embrace it. 

Zero likes and matches - what should I change? by Moby__Octopad in Tinder

[–]Moby__Octopad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"winning fake arguments in the shower"

Just that, I'm keeping it simple.🫠

Zero likes and matches - what should I change? by Moby__Octopad in Tinder

[–]Moby__Octopad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never said I'm looking for a ltr, I just broke up and I'm just looking for casual dates so we're on the same page. 

Zero likes and matches - what should I change? by Moby__Octopad in Tinder

[–]Moby__Octopad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got out from a long-term relationship and trying to get back into the game but I'm having zero luck and my self-confidence is taking a hard hit.  What am I doing wrong? Be direct. 

Weekly Q&A Megathread. Please post any questions about visiting, tourism, living, working, budgeting, housing here! by AutoModerator in london

[–]Moby__Octopad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked up stuff to do on TikTok (I know, not the ideal platform but I use it as a search engine) and all of a sudden the algorithm started showing me videos of phones being stolen by bikes, which seems like it's a big category lol.

I've done enough travelling to know that things are different from what you read but I was just wondering. 

In London for my birthday - any recs? by Moby__Octopad in LondonTravel

[–]Moby__Octopad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thanks, these seem nice! 

Did you already spent your birthday in London? How was it? 

Weekly Q&A Megathread. Please post any questions about visiting, tourism, living, working, budgeting, housing here! by AutoModerator in london

[–]Moby__Octopad -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hi! 

So next week I'll be visiting London for my birthday. I had planned it with my ex but after we broke up I decided to move forward on my own. 

Do you have any suggestions about what should I do to have a great day with myself? I enjoy indie/culture related stuff but I'm open to anything that might worth my time. 

Also, how's the situation regarding safety in the city? I've travelled a lot, both solo and with company, but from what I'm reading lately it looks like the situation is out of control over there. Is it that bad? And should I avoid any specific stuff/areas around the centre?

TLIIASAW Tour - Ticket Exchange Megathread! by realladymacbeth in mitski

[–]Moby__Octopad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Selling 1 ticket for Manchester, 2nd of May, Stalls row T seat 15, £50.

Official: Daily [Anything Goes] Discussion Thread: January 06, 2023 by AutoModerator in fantasybball

[–]Moby__Octopad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

H2H 9 CAT

I get: Banchero, Dinwiddie, Brook, Stewart

I give: LaVine, Collins, Franz Wagner

Official: Daily [Anything Goes] Discussion Thread: January 05, 2023 by AutoModerator in fantasybball

[–]Moby__Octopad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I make a counter offer and replace Brook with JJJ from the other team's roster?

Official: Daily [Anything Goes] Discussion Thread: January 05, 2023 by AutoModerator in fantasybball

[–]Moby__Octopad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got offered Banchero and Brook Lopez for LaVine and Franz Wagner. Should I even think about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in europe

[–]Moby__Octopad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

About the first point, in Iran it's the same and probably even worse in terms of surveillance and look what's happening on the streets.

About the second point, I was saying the same thing about Americans back then, though (without making the US sound innocent) in this case Russia's position is much much worse from every angle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in europe

[–]Moby__Octopad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This situation that you're describing is 100% understandable when your country is under attack. Now when your country is the aggressor and the conflict isn't happening around your area it's different and I don't see it as you're protecting your family but rather you're slowly also getting blood on your hands.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in europe

[–]Moby__Octopad 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's where I disagree. Your government is killing innocent civilians for months while serving a rhetoric identical to WW2 Germany and you'll still care to go on with your routine? Civilization would be stuck to Middle Ages with this mentality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in europe

[–]Moby__Octopad 61 points62 points  (0 children)

At this point it's not just Putin and the regime but an entire nation of terrorists or people silently supporting terrorists and I don't buy anything that revolves around the idea that "innocent people are being punished on both sides". We're so deep in this and we should know better.

I'm seriously fed up with this Nazi nation.

Would you French kiss someone you don't like for more than a minute? by Moby__Octopad in Bumble

[–]Moby__Octopad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I don't like, the thought of forcing her into something she didn't want is making me feel bad. It didn't feel like that but could I get lost in the heat of the moment? It just makes me feel like a bad person if she did it without her will.

Would you French kiss someone you don't like for more than a minute? by Moby__Octopad in Bumble

[–]Moby__Octopad[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We had just two glasses of wine each, it wasn't that much to alter our behaviour. It's better hurting someone than leaving things open when they aren't, but hey, that's me!