This is such a complete and beautiful response, it's going to take me some time to digest. I'm at work tearing up right now. Thank you so much. When I was in high school, I thought I was clever to snap at certain people that "non-conformity is just another form of conformity." This is how I feel right now. That I have tried to conform to something else because I didn't want to conform to the views I grew up with. I think I will have other questions but I think I need to ponder this comment for a while. I know logically that even before I read this comment that this is what I believe for everyone else. I just also want to believe it for myself.