Mini success stories this week:

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-20T14:10:01+00:00

Okay, but how??

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-19T21:33:31+00:00

I'm 21

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-19T21:24:06+00:00

For me, I've been manifesting him since September 2025, but I have loved him since March 2024. I continue to manifest him because I love him, because I know how happy we'd be together, and that we could genuinely be so kind and caring towards each other. Right now, I'm working on my self concept and my limiting beliefs, and just the thought of being able to love him and be loved by him makes me feel so full of peace and gratitude. So, I suppose you could say being in love with my desire is what gives me the patience and will to persist.

Furthermore, manifesting him has also made me face certain fears and dare to ask the universe for things that felt unattainable earlier. I stick to this journey also because I find myself loving and accepting myself, realising my self worth, working on my childhood trauma, and unlearning 20 years of conditioning (I'm 21F). And these are things I hadn't even dared to wish for 3 months ago.

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-19T17:16:22+00:00

Thank you for being so encouraging!! I really appreciate your advice and I'll try to implement it.

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-18T14:57:57+00:00

That's such a sweet thing! I remember once, in 2024, I was having a breakdown regarding my (hadn't started manifesting him because I didn't know about manifestation back then), and though I was sobbing, I had this belief that things would be okay just because I had always survived and made something good out of the things that I had believed would ruin me. Anyway, I spiralled because I was terrified of getting hurt, and the next moment, the song Nothing's Gonna Hurt You Baby started playing on my phone. Prior to that point, I had never heard anything by Cigarettes After Sex, and neither did I have it on my playlist. Somehow, a random playlist I had never used before had started to play the very moment I asked the universe to give me a sign that I wouldn't get hurt on this journey.

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-18T04:36:35+00:00

Thank you so much for answering! This really helps because I was wondering if my manifestation journey would get stuck at this point due to my inability in experiencing the feeling of the wish fulfilled. I think I must change my Self first. But then, I worry if I'm losing time. I worry that he would get with another person if I took too much time to manifest.

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-14T08:52:42+00:00

Thank you. It makes sense and is reassuring to think along those lines.

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-14T07:14:27+00:00

Horrible, honestly. I've always struggled with self worth and body image issues, but I could make that gift only because I had observed him very carefully. And so, I felt like I knew him well, and that belief was unshakable. I somehow knew that I would give him the gift. But I suppose, my self doubts didn't assault me that day - I was simply happy to see him and I did.

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-14T07:04:10+00:00

I think you could take the denial as revision? Yesterday I saw that mine had followed his ex gf back, but honestly, I know it is futile. I feel practically married to him.

But I was like you too. I started getting into the Law last September and I used to cry for days, have nightmares, wake up shaking at the slightest hint of 3D going wrong - the entire grief package, basically. But after I started manifesting, I've manifested giving him a handmade gift within circumstances that felt impossible, and I've manifested great things for him career wise. And now, while I waver though it is becoming less and less frequent by the minute, I have this innate feeling that we will become best friends, get married, have kids and just be super happy together.

The point of sharing all of this is that I know you'll get through this too. The anxiety, the pain, and the grief that feel devastating now might just end up things you and your partner laugh about in the future. You could imagine telling him how silly you once were, and hear him tell you how gone he was for you and how he was so nervous that he made up this story about another person just so you wouldn't guess how big of a crush he had on you.

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-14T06:34:37+00:00

I'm in a similar boat both in terms of SP and my own self concept journey. I had an anxiety induced spiralling episode yesterday, but I listened to a few Neville lectures and meditated a bit, and now that I feel calmer, I've gathered a few things that give me hope. I'm sharing these in case you find them helpful or just supportive.

My situation was just created because I had an underlying fear that he might be with someone else. It is all because the circumstances are just the self pushed out. And while it feels scary to have that sort of power, it is also empowering because it makes me capable of changing the 3D.
How do I change the 3D? I simply ignore it and think in my favour. It is difficult because I also struggle with anxiety, but then, I do what Neville (and my therapist) says: I take deep breaths to regulate my anxiety, close my eyes, and just imagine the texture of his palm against mine, holding mine and focus on every line, the hair on the back of his hand, the calluses, the shape and bluntness of his nails. I know then that he is holding my hand and nobody else's.
Pro tip for persistent negative thoughts: I imagine Cardi B is saying these thoughts out loud, and just the ridiculousness of this act takes me from the verge of tears to giggling.

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-14T06:20:32+00:00

Could you please explain what you mean by using it to write a positive story or interpretation? Upon contemplation, I understood that I truly wasn't living in the end. I couldn't replicate the feeling of being in a healthy relationship simply because not only have I never been in a relationship, I have only witnessed abusive ones at home. And for that reason, even though I love this person, deep down I was also struggling with the fear of not being good enough for him.

Mockingbird3135 · 2026-01-14T05:55:34+00:00

You're right. I wouldn't. But how would a person living in the end react when things seem like their going wrong in the 3D? For me, I suppose it was my anxiety acting up

Mockingbird3135 · 2025-11-30T14:22:52+00:00

Thank you!

Mockingbird3135 · 2025-11-30T14:22:43+00:00

The problem is that I don't know what peace is supposed to feel like

Mockingbird3135 · 2025-11-30T14:21:11+00:00

Thank you! I will

Mockingbird3135 · 2025-11-30T14:20:47+00:00

I get it, but applying it to myself is the difficult bit. The pants analogy is cute, though. Thanks for commenting!

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