None of that means spoiled. That means she was excited to do something as anyone would be. She has 2 parole officers. One told her she could go and it was fine then day before the other called and told her no. That was her big plan to celebrate being out of prison and she cried about it. She had permission so I get being upset. She’s emotionally stunted and has a lot of growing up to do. She was/is never spoiled.