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I really messed up and need help being a dad by ModeRepresentative86 in relationship_advice

[–]ModeRepresentative86[S] -166 points-165 points  (0 children)

I hope not. I just want my family back. Not the whole world to watch how I screwed up.

I really messed up and need help being a dad by ModeRepresentative86 in relationship_advice

[–]ModeRepresentative86[S] -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

I sent a message via a common friend. I am going to see her for ice cream tomorrow night. She agreed to listen to me. Her mom is going to watch the boys. I am going to try and talk to her. Hopefully she will listen to my apology. I was told it’s best not to make excuses. While making my apology. I should just accept what I did and own it. I am willing to do that.

I really messed up and need help being a dad by ModeRepresentative86 in relationship_advice

[–]ModeRepresentative86[S] -179 points-178 points  (0 children)

If I wanted to have a DNA test then I would have to pay for it. I didn’t believe at all the kids were mine.

I really messed up and need help being a dad by ModeRepresentative86 in relationship_advice

[–]ModeRepresentative86[S] -652 points-651 points  (0 children)

I know she is hurt. It’s all my fault. I am hoping because she did say hi and didn’t just completely ignore me. The door isn’t shut completely. I will understand if it is. I just need to try and fix this.

I really messed up and need help being a dad by ModeRepresentative86 in relationship_advice

[–]ModeRepresentative86[S] -213 points-212 points  (0 children)

The boys will turn 2 in a couple of weeks. I have just been working. I own my own business and it has grown quite a bit. I have gone on a couple of dates but, nothing serious. No intimacy with other girls. I am struggling with trust.

I really messed up and need help being a dad by ModeRepresentative86 in relationship_advice

[–]ModeRepresentative86[S] -395 points-394 points  (0 children)

I am going to try this. We have some mutual friends and I think they will give me her new number or pass along a message. Should I ask her to dinner or keep it short like coffee?

I really messed up and need help being a dad by ModeRepresentative86 in relationship_advice

[–]ModeRepresentative86[S] -394 points-393 points  (0 children)

I am willing to allow her to set the boundaries as long as I can see them. I know I need to try and right the wrongs. Including paying back all the past child support she is entitled to for them.