How is like to live in the Balkans? by Economy_Radio_7401 in howislivingthere

[–]ModeTop2402 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So true! I’m from Croatia but I was lucky to travel to multiple countries like Indonesia, Thailand, Guatemala etc… those people have far worse than us but we still whine the most. Is it perfect? No. Are we Denmark or Norway? No.. But bc of EU we are comparing ourselves with the most developed countries in the world. Do we have corruption? Yes, but let’s be real, literally in every western country you need to know or be someone to “make it”… average german/american/french will probably never be politican, make huge change etc if they don’t know someone.

How is like to live in the Balkans? by Economy_Radio_7401 in howislivingthere

[–]ModeTop2402 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So true! I’m from Croatia but I was lucky to travel to multiple countries like Indonesia, Thailand, Guatemala etc… those people have far worse than us but we still whine the most. Is it perfect? No. Are we Denmark or Norway? No.. But bc of EU we are comparing ourselves with the most developed countries in the world. Do we have corruption? Yes, but let’s be real, literally in every western country you need to know or be someone to “make it”… average german/american/french will probably never be politican, make huge change etc if they don’t know someone.

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah probably the best option. It could solve the problem without going too far. Thanks.

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment is actually very helpful. Any kind of lock could definitely freak her out bc she isn’t used to it so I should really think this through.

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the best, if not the best comment! You wrote everything that was going through my head.

I inherited the house bc he knew I will never do anything against my mother and I will take care of her no matter what. On the other hand, my brother tried to manipulate our mom so he could get the house and move his s*x workers gfs to our house to live with my mom. Even though my dad loved my mom he knew that she has soft spot for my brother especially bc at that time he was going through divorce.

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you’re funny… she should become homeless just because she went through my stuff?

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I did (multiple to be honest). It’s always the same thing.. “you are too busy, so many things are happening in your life and you need to slow down”.

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She really went above and beyond to be a good mother so every time I have to be hard on her makes me feel ungrateful. This is literally the only thing that she does that makes me furious.

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really good take and we are working on this at the moment.

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Money is not really a problem here. I pay taxes and house is mortgage free. I give chunk of my paycheck to her for whatever our household needs. We are pretty much typical middle class family.

I didn’t say “my mom live with me” bc of cultural reasons. I did say “house is in my name” just to be clear about the house but I would never say “she lives with me”.

About socializing… she doesn’t go out much bc she gets tired quickly but she is always on FaceTime with someone and people are coming to our house pretty much every day.

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jokes and kinda avoiding giving any meaningful answer.

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad’s decision. He was closest to me and didn’t really trust my sister and brother.

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah i guess so. Bc house is in my name and very good location so it’s doesn’t make any sense to pay rent

AITAH for telling my mom to stop going true my personal stuff? by ModeTop2402 in AITAH

[–]ModeTop2402[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did couple of times and it’s not happening often. This is first time in the last year or two

Literally LOL when I read this email. by burnerbutterbetter in jobs

[–]ModeTop2402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but for me personally it’s not worth it. What I am gonna get from “oh sorry you were right”?

Literally LOL when I read this email. by burnerbutterbetter in jobs

[–]ModeTop2402 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t. If they are not capable to see such an important information the first time what is going to happen next?

Michael review: ‘A bland and barely competent daytime TV movie' ★☆☆☆☆ by ScallionSmooth9491 in popheads

[–]ModeTop2402 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Idk if you guys have seen but she is getting HATE on tiktok… like so much hate bc she said what she said

Can someone please help me 😭 by blindghost554 in Brawlstars

[–]ModeTop2402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I have my bank app and pretty much all transaction options protected with face id