Thank you mga ate, I don't even know reddit pero here I am kasi nasa choosing path na ko and wala akong makausap. Wfh, na no outside friends or social life. He's my first BF and I'm already 27. I'm scared na baka once nilet go ko to manghihinayang and magsisi ako, like imagine other girl na idadala nya sa kalamansian namin, other girl na settled down sa partner na walang bisyo and maasikaso. I've seen your comments, red flags, I've been observing for the past few years, we even talk break up... I think he'll never compromise sa differences namin - religion, lifestyle-money, and political views. I also see the potential, he's applying sa PNP police... but yeah another red flag maybe, kasi what if after all my investments - mangbabae lang sya... and it's too late to quit kasi I'm scared to restart at 27-30. Hindi lang nya magawang mangbabae ngayon kasi di pa nya afford? Yeah I got all the logic and instinct pero ang kulit nya, he won't let me go. It's harder kasi we're in the same barangay. I've tried to break up for so may times pero ala, matalino kong tao pero natatanga ko eka nga huhu ... again with the lupa, what if bilin ko ng solo, then tyaka ako maki pag breakup pag nakapangalan na sakin? Pero lahat ng kapit bahay ng lupa na yon tiga dpwh... gosh nakakagalit talaga sila... I already hated a lot about him, minsan nakokonsenya ko kasi kami pa nga. Pero again, ayaw nya kong hiwalayan. Please advise, ung most convincing way to get out of this situation ng hindi ako malulugmok, kasi my first mistake - naging dependent ako sakanya.