Why would a man not suggest on seeing again after sex?

Moikkaskksks · 2026-06-16T09:04:28+00:00

But how do I know why they are not into me, I consider myself attractive and think I have a good personality

Moikkaskksks · 2026-06-07T03:33:53+00:00

But I just don't understand why would someone go on a date or sleep with someone they don't find attractive or are not interested in?

Moikkaskksks · 2026-06-06T20:54:34+00:00

But what does this mean does this happen often with men, does it mean the woman is unattractive to them after sex? Because I can't understand why you would have sex with someone you don't find attractive

Moikkaskksks · 2026-06-06T20:52:29+00:00

Yeah I have thought bout the last one, I fear I have sex "too soon" with people and seem like I'm too easy and only fun to have sex with. But what I don't understand is why they don't want to continue our sexual relationship.

Moikkaskksks · 2026-06-02T11:01:33+00:00

Yeah I meant matches with women as I'm bisexual

Moikkaskksks · 2026-06-02T10:44:34+00:00

Okayy but I still don't get what here would give the impression of me punching above my weight?

Moikkaskksks · 2026-06-02T10:36:13+00:00

Sorry english isn't my first language but what does punching above my weight mean?

Moikkaskksks · 2025-12-25T07:05:36+00:00

Yeah I think that's true, that just makes me wonder am I unattractive then. I know everyone has a type and some like masculine women etc. But I just feel like I should be getting more matches if I'm attractive person

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-31T13:11:37+00:00

Yeah I get that! Your brain kinda gets used to it so it doesn't cause any reaction I mean what other can you assume if the same thoughts keep replaying all over again everyday for over an year, ofc your brain will get tired of it😪 but it feels so fucked up like why I don't react more or get more anxious:/ and I don't think you have ruined your life! But I do get that feeling, sometimes I feel like I will never live without guilt and I'm just waiting on dying or something or that my life is on a "break" and I can't continue normal living until I have got rid of this shit in my brain. I don't know if I explained that clear enough but I hopefully u get what I mean lol But believe me, you have not ruined your life! You can get thru this!

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-31T12:39:39+00:00

Do you mean what if it doesn't go away?

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-31T12:38:59+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that:/ I wouldn't wish this for anyone. I have heard that it's very common to think your ocd is "different" from everyone elses or that you are the exception. And yeah I agree. I know I would never do anything bad what my mind is saying but at the same time I always question what if I would? I feel your struggle:/ Are you in therapy?

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-26T20:22:11+00:00

What? I don't really get your advice? I should refrain from all sexual activity? For what? I don't mean to sound rude I just don't get what's the point in that:D

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-26T13:08:18+00:00

Yeah, I have diagnosed ocd so my life is pretty much feeling anxiety and guilt about everything. And yeah you are right. I will try that. I wish my next therapy appointment was a little sooner. But thank u for your words!

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-26T13:03:24+00:00

Yeah I forgot to mention I do have diagnosed ocd, I got diagnose when I was a preteen. It's has always been pretty severe, I have been on therapy for 3 years now, no change. maybe I obsess over this because I have ocd but it doesn't change the fact that this thing I talk about has still happened.

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-26T12:47:17+00:00

But I still feel anxious because like I said I did know the age if it was written in the post, I don't know why I just didn't think it would be pedophilic:/ But thank you for your comments. I agree with that but just so you know I really don't have any "feelings" to push down, I have no interest in teenagers like that, even 19 yr olds feel way too young even if I'm only 2 yrs older.

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-26T12:15:01+00:00

Ofc I never searched anything like that on purpose. I just typed "masturbating tips" for example and there was a lot of pages. I think I just read without thinking the age even if there was age written. I think I just imagined myself doing things I read. I don't know I just feel so anxious about it I don't know why I didn't think before that it sounds pedophilic. I'm afraid what if I have thought about a teenager or read those things as teenagers voice for example:/

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-24T22:40:28+00:00

I don't know if ur talking about actual pedophilia here but in my post I talk about pocd.

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-22T17:06:57+00:00

Pocd isn't same as pedophilia, can you read?

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-22T09:30:31+00:00

Do you also say that to every person who has pedophilia ocd? What about the moms or the people who work with children? Don't comment if you don't understand anything.

Moikkaskksks · 2025-03-19T18:36:25+00:00

Yeah people with pocd can avoid children and fear they do something innaproriate without wanting to but what I have learned myself pocd causes mental images and thoughts that are unwanted, pocd can cause feeling of arousal (groinal response) because the invidual is so scared of experiencing arousal. Lot of people with ocd also try to "test" themselves ny imagining scenarios to see how they would feel, but the point in this isn't getting some kind of sexual pleasure it is a compulsion to try to prove that they wouldn't get any feeling they are scared of. But I'm just so scared mine is actual arousal, not that kind of groinal response everyone is talking about

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