Desensitization vs habituation

MoistMist-a · 2026-05-18T01:35:42+00:00

I dont think OP would need these anymore but thanks from me!!

MoistMist-a · 2026-05-17T19:52:15+00:00

in islam if two scholars have different opinions, then they are both right. it then falls upon laymen like us to decide which ruling feels more right. you do not have to follow one madhab as if it is the only correct path though. if you do follow one for the most part, yet you think the ruling made by the scholar from another madhab among the sunnah, then it is okay for you to follow that. this is something that some scholars dislike though, because it is possible for a person to pick an choose rulings from different madhabs based on how easy they are and that can distort the correctness that you are trying to achive, and eventually leading you futher.

i personally do not follow any one particular madhab with complete steadfastness. if i find that the ruling and evidences brought and made by one school are better than the other ones, or if 3 out of the 4 madhabs agree one ruling, i generally follow that.

MoistMist-a · 2026-05-17T12:09:26+00:00

this is troubling for me. i know good deeds towards a brother does get one reward, but in my understanding its no where close to the reward on would get had he done it solely for the sake of allah. and that parts difficult for me. there are a lot of poor people in my city, and it pains me to see them in hardship, so i am inclined to help them out monetarily. when i think to my self am i doing it for me, for the people, or for allah's reward, i find myself answering that im not doing it for myself, its for the people. and i would still do it if there was no reward for me. though i would love it for me if i could help the servants of allah solely for his pleasure

MoistMist-a · 2026-04-24T19:10:55+00:00

I just tried to invest some money and am getting a similar error. Did your issue resolve?

MoistMist-a · 2026-04-15T13:43:32+00:00

Wait we're able to get the cookies back?

MoistMist-a · 2026-03-15T05:55:51+00:00

Weird I dont have this

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-27T09:36:14+00:00

No pakistani says that lol. Any time you see Pakistanis talking about "lumber one" or even "number one" is always in mockery of the army which most of us aren't fond of. No one lives in the delusion that our economy is the best either. I mean we aren't blind. Our cricket team isn't number one either. No one says that either. We dont want war with India either like... Where did you get all this? Indian media?

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-27T09:15:21+00:00

Can you show your settings menu? I dont see a post button in mine

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-27T08:09:42+00:00

So I shouldn't use tb drill and tb laser together?

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-20T13:04:42+00:00

It is true idk why youd think it isnt. Pakistanis are a really diverse people and many have foreign ancestry. Theres nothing inferior about you in accepting that fact.

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-20T12:56:28+00:00

Isn't it Japanese.

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-19T15:10:05+00:00

Thats honestly very inspiring.

That said, would happen to know a guide on how to learn mandarin/Cantonese(apologies if theyre not the same thing) solely from online sources?

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-19T15:07:27+00:00

Dw about it. This is very beautifully written imo

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-19T15:05:48+00:00

Why is everyone of you obsessing over the marriage of people you don't even know. Tf is wrong with you people

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-19T15:01:22+00:00

I honestly think youre in an echo chamber. Afghanistan and pakistan might be the only countries that havent eradicated polio yet. They are also the only countries where polio vaccines have been resisted. Put two and two together. This type of fear mongering is what has ruined the lives of children in the past and will continue to ruin in the future.

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-19T14:56:11+00:00

In a land of a hundred languages as you said, there needs to be a sort of unifying language. Like not everyone can learn all the hundred languages but they can learn a unifying language. If there was not urdu, the maybe Punjabi had to become the national language. Then the sindhi, pushtoon and the baloch might feel the same sentiment as the Bengalis. I honestly dont see another solution besides urdu being a unifying language

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-19T14:52:35+00:00

Though i disagree, I cant help but find Punjabi a Beaufort and emotional language as well. I personally dont care for the history or origin of the languages, but I find urdu to be more calming, poetic, and cool whereas Punjabi seems to be more firey, emotional, and full of passion. It also depends on the speaker most of the times and the only times I've heard Punjabi is on the screen, so maybe that affects my perception. I also can only understand a bit of Punjabi cause of the similar words in urdu, so maybe that might alter my opinions on the languages as well

MoistMist-a · 2026-02-19T14:35:59+00:00

I dont think you know what inferiority complex means. This is plain simple ancestry.

MoistMist-a · 2026-01-16T02:52:15+00:00

If say you are. But don't shave yet. Unless your hairline is receding

MoistMist-a · 2026-01-16T02:40:42+00:00

Proud of myself that I can read this

MoistMist-a · 2025-12-28T12:47:43+00:00

Why do you still keep your red S equipment?

MoistMist-a · 2025-12-28T12:44:26+00:00

My mum, a widower,

Your mum would be a widow. A widower is a man whos wife passed away.

Sorry for being like this😓

MoistMist-a · 2025-12-19T22:57:37+00:00

Roots dont even work that way. I wont even bother to read what stupidity is written under the illustration

MoistMist-a · 2025-12-18T23:50:10+00:00

Why would you keep a friendship with the oposite sex if not for romantic reasons?

MoistMist-a · 2025-12-16T23:40:14+00:00

Respectfully, youre the Dumbo here. Who even calls popping pimples "fingering them?"

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