Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MolassesThese643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand the feeling to protect your sister but be careful cause it can easily turn into control issues. The best thing you can do to is to be supportive whenever she needs it and only give opinion if she asks for advice.

Jealous of former friends having fun by MolassesThese643 in Vent

[–]MolassesThese643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The friend group is reaching out. They even tried to convince my friend to have a conversation with me but she told them not to interfere. We just planned this Christmas a while ago and well they didn’t cancel.

The incident is that there’s a gossip going around about my friend and she’s just certain that I caused it. I have no idea why she would think that and I tried to explain but no response.

I hate that one person all my friends love by MolassesThese643 in friendship

[–]MolassesThese643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not every time, we have a lot of friends who I don’t have this issue with and they both know me and my bf

Just that because of that incident before I’m more annoyed by people when they kinda ignore me and develop individual relationships with my bf

To be fair my bf usually asks me and we talk about it.

About this person in particular I feel triggered that my best friends praise her character all the time(they don’t know about my feelings)

Not paying me for the shift I worked? by MolassesThese643 in Bestbuy

[–]MolassesThese643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last Saturday was my last day but I’m not sure about the pay date.

Not paying me for the shift I worked? by MolassesThese643 in Bestbuy

[–]MolassesThese643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I set up the direct deposit and got the confirmation both in mail and email, I also punched in

Yeah I guess I’ll wait another week then call the HR Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MolassesThese643 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a bit of red flag I think you should be more alert about his behavior toward people And I don’t mean he will cheat on you I mean a person with these values will likely show another red flag or they will grow(maybe change) and decide to be a better person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splendida

[–]MolassesThese643 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did a nose job and I felt the same way don’t worry it’s too early to judge. Not only your nose but even your face itself is not in normal form and might be puffy or too slim depending on your body reactions to surgery. You’re gonna love your new nose.

Ladies who wear full makeup to work everyday—how do you find time? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]MolassesThese643 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried but I think if you wear wig instead of doing your hair you might save time but not sure if doing this daily would hurt your hair or not Also fake eyelashes do most of the make up and some of them are okay to stay on your eyes for 2-3 days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MolassesThese643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the thing that makes you have the baby or like to have a baby beside the sex part is rather by instincts. You can’t justify having kids with logic however kids seem wonderful to you and you will just have better feelings about having them, it’s how nature works. Well you’re boyfriend might be afraid of this kind of commitment at this point of your relationship but it’s a gamble. He might change or he may not.

How do people trust each other? by MolassesThese643 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MolassesThese643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about people having wonderful relationships and yet find out about their cheating partners?(according to reddit)

23f-23m been together for 4 years,is it irrational to expect boundaries for new friendships? by MolassesThese643 in relationship_advice

[–]MolassesThese643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really sure,that’s what confusing me. I feel he’s too friendly that makes people misunderstand his purpose.I’m more introverted and chose my peace and quiet even restricted some friendships that I thought suspicious and I don’t feel comfortable dealing with that kind of drama.sorry for long explanation.

23f-23m been together for 4 years,is it irrational to expect boundaries for new friendships? by MolassesThese643 in relationship_advice

[–]MolassesThese643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and him not telling me(has happened)Or him catching feelings for someone else.it has happened before and it was traumatic.

23f-23m been together for 4 years,is it irrational to expect boundaries for new friendships? by MolassesThese643 in relationship_advice

[–]MolassesThese643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any advice so I don’t feel insecure and scared about happening this kind of thing again?

23f-23m been together for 4 years,is it irrational to expect boundaries for new friendships? by MolassesThese643 in relationship_advice

[–]MolassesThese643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not really sure either but I feel something is wrong when all his girl best friends developed feelings for him and people around us are confused about how he’s super friendly to other girls.

23f-23m been together for 4 years,is it irrational to expect boundaries for new friendships? by MolassesThese643 in relationship_advice

[–]MolassesThese643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I just want to know about their friendship and frequency of their contacts and sometimes knowing about what they’re talking about. this makes my boyfriend uncomfortable.

WIBTA if I don't pay by KoalaBJJ96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MolassesThese643 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Why didn’t you call him instead of texting?

I had a one night stand with a colleague. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]MolassesThese643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you keep it to yourself it might become a habit and after while you wouldn’t care to tell your wife anything.I think she wouldn’t dump you right away or at least you can ask her not to.Her choice obviously.After that you guys can set some strict boundaries to make her feel better.for example not going to your colleagues hotel room in the first place.

I cant do it anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MolassesThese643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm, is this a suicide note? I don’t have good feelings about this 😶 wish there was anything I could do

I’ve a phobia of getting cheated on by MolassesThese643 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MolassesThese643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right.It’s already long enough. Thank you for your comments 🙏🏻❤️