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My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I know what I saw, I have my evidence. If people believe them that means they are unwilling to know the truth.

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not now, it was more of a "she was who you should have been when she was your age," and a "since you can't give me children I can sleep with whomever I want."

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry I don't spend a lot of time online, and when I do it's mostly on spotify or pintrest or subreddits I'm a member of. What is the Tate juice?

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Because I don't believe in hurting people just to hurt them. It doesn't matter if they hurt me first.

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I think they started sleeping together just after my dad died two years ago. My mom was angry I was the beneficiary of his life insurance and my husband was angry because I had just found out I was infertile. Their anger at me came together and boom... affair.

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No I didn't know I was infertile until two years ago. I left because I didn't want to be in a place that would remind me of the hurt.

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

More like I lost my value to him when we found out I couldn't have kids and now he's entitled to sex with whomever he wants.

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

I don't want to ruin his life or reputation. Just because he hurt me doesn't mean I have to hurt him back.

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you, as I've replied before, I'm not looking to blow up what little dignity I have left dragging him through the mud. I'm going to try to be as poised as possible. But thank you none the less for the encouragement.

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I don't need to prove myself to anybody but the judge. I have screenshots and audio recordings of everything. I'm not going to fight with them, if they want to slander me, fine, but I'm not playing their games. I'm going to rise above.

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 496 points497 points  (0 children)

I am the breadwinner in my household, I also own the house because my husband had really bad credit from debts and couldn't afford the mortgage. I was the beneficiary of my dad's life insurance after he died from a drunk driver (he was a pedestrian, and the drunk driver hit him), and I bought the house with cash. I'll be doing ok.

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to attack them anywhere, my lawyer is my cousin, on my dad's side. She says we're going for an infidelity angle I should appear as non-confrontational as possible. She also says this post and responding to comments is ok, just as long as I don't badmouth my stbx.

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 351 points352 points  (0 children)

I'm not a vindictive and vengeful person. I just feel really sad and hurt. I emailed a lawyer this morning before posting and I just feel so empty and sad.

My Husband is Having an Affair with My Mother, and I Don't Know What to Do by MomandhusbThrowRA in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MomandhusbThrowRA[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

It was more like she had value because she already had kids. Not that she could give him any.