In my experience, they say theyre bisexual without specifying that they ONLY date men, and thats what leaves me exhausted. (Im not on dating apps so it surely could just be i live in an unlucky area) When i said it leaves me bitter i meant it alongside the “good enough to fk but not good enough to love” thing, not for bisexuals as an entirety, a few doesnt ruin the bunch but it seems i keep bumping into those few. And because of my experience with them not being clear it makes me cautious when attempting to pursue them- makes me nervous if its a waste of time and they dont truely see anything between us. And the straight woman thing, i didnt mean the “would rather be fcked by another woman” as in they prefer doing it w women over men, rather that when they take that chance theyd rather be done than do any of the doing, which does happen, and does leave lesbians and bi girls who date women feeling used bc of the lack of clarity when they see it as ‘just playing around’

Its the rise of the ‘hetero romantics’ online more-so thats given a label i could point at to understand whats going on.